{"id":5471,"date":"2023-06-07T10:04:28","date_gmt":"2023-06-07T08:04:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/?p=5471"},"modified":"2023-06-07T10:04:28","modified_gmt":"2023-06-07T08:04:28","slug":"trpezlivost-vo-vztahoch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2023\/06\/07\/trpezlivost-vo-vztahoch\/","title":{"rendered":"TRPEZLIVOS\u0164 VO VZ\u0164AHOCH"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ako sa prejavuje netrpezlivos\u0165 vo vz\u0165ahoch medzi \u013eu\u010fmi v na\u0161ich rodin\u00e1ch? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n

1.Trpezlivos\u0165 vo vz\u0165ahu man\u017eelov<\/span><\/p>\n

Mo\u017eno pozn\u00e1te tak\u00fd ten v\u00fdrok, ke\u010f sa op\u00fdtali star\u010deka, ktor\u00fd oslavoval so svojou man\u017eelkou diamantov\u00fa svadbu, \u017ee ako je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee tak dlho spolu vydr\u017eali…. A on povedal: \u017dili sme v dobe, v ktorej ke\u010f sa nie\u010do pokazilo, tak sme to opravili, namiesto toho, aby sme to vyhodili na smetisko. Mlad\u00ed \u013eudia sa rad\u0161ej hne\u010f rozved\u00fa, ako by mali trpezlivo pracova\u0165 na svojom vz\u0165ahu. Rad\u0161ej sa rozved\u00fa, akoby mali zn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 to, \u017ee ten druh\u00fd je in\u00fd ako ja. Rad\u0161ej sa rozved\u00fa, akoby trpezlivo… <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Trpezlivos\u0165 vo v\u00fdchove<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u00e1m tak\u00e9 2 obrazy pred sebou. Cestovala som vlakom a mami\u010dka cca ro\u010dn\u00e9ho die\u0165atka sa cel\u00fd \u010das s n\u00edm rozpr\u00e1vala. Ono cupitalo sem a tam a padalo a ona ho nieko\u013ekokr\u00e1t zodvihla… A hovor\u00edm si: Presne tak\u00fa trpezlivos\u0165 m\u00e1 P\u00e1n Boh ku mne… M\u00e1 ma st\u00e1le na o\u010diach, a ke\u010f pad\u00e1m, dv\u00edha ma… A potom \u010fal\u0161\u00ed obraz u lek\u00e1ra. Pri\u0161la mama, posadila die\u0165a na stoli\u010dku a hne\u010f mobil do ruky… Rad\u0161ej d\u00e1me de\u0165om do ruky mobil, aby sa zabavili sam\u00e9, preto\u017ee nem\u00e1me trpezlivos\u0165 sa im venova\u0165.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. trpezlivos\u0165 kres\u0165anov k neveriacim<\/span><\/p>\n

Ve\u013ea rozpr\u00e1vame o tom, ak\u00ed s\u00fa, ve\u013ea moralizujeme, namiesto toho, aby sme im sl\u00fa\u017eili. Aby sme s nimi komunikovali, preto\u017ee si to \u017eiada ve\u013ea trpezlivosti.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. trpezlivos\u0165 v slu\u017ebe \u013eu\u010fom, ktor\u00ed si to nezasl\u00fa\u017eia, alebo v\u00f4bec nie s\u00fa v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed<\/span><\/p>\n

Ako ma P\u00e1n Boh napomenul cez m\u00f4jho man\u017eela: Po\u010das brig\u00e1d k n\u00e1m do are\u00e1lu prich\u00e1dzal pravidelne jeden bezdomovec. Ni\u010d neurobil, nepomohol, iba sa k n\u00e1m chodil najes\u0165 a posedie\u0165 si na lavi\u010dke. S man\u017eelom sme sa po brig\u00e1de rozpr\u00e1vali, \u017ee by bolo dobr\u00e9 si s n\u00edm o tom pohovori\u0165, \u017ee teda tro\u0161ku ho<\/span><\/span> aj <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>vies\u0165, nielen k\u0155mi\u0165. No, nedopadlo to dobre, vykrikoval a vulg\u00e1rne mu nad\u00e1val… S\u00fa \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed si v\u00f4bec nezasl\u00fa\u017eia n\u00e1\u0161 z\u00e1ujem, ale my im m\u00e1me napriek tomu sl\u00fa\u017ei\u0165. A mus\u00edme v tom by\u0165 trpezliv\u00fd nie preto, \u017eeby si to zasl\u00fa\u017eili, ale preto, \u017ee to proste potrebuj\u00fa a \u017ee P\u00e1n Boh n\u00e1s k nim posiela. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Dva pr\u00edklady z Biblie<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Trpezliv\u00fd Jozef<\/span><\/p>\n

Jozef u\u017e ako chlapec dost\u00e1val sny od P\u00e1na Boha, \u017ee raz z neho bude niekto, komu sa poklon\u00ed cel\u00e1 jeho rodina. Kr\u00e1sne sny, ktor\u00e9 m\u00e1 Jozef a ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa zjavne proroctvom a zas\u013e\u00faben\u00edm od P\u00e1na Boha. A aj ke\u010f by sme \u010dakali to, \u017ee Jozef nejako bude st\u00fapa\u0165 po rebr\u00ed\u010dku a bude sa mu dari\u0165, Jozef sa st\u00e1va „Bo\u017e\u00edm pacientom“. V\u0161etko je inak, ako by ste \u010dakali. V\u0161etko sa, naopak, v jeho \u017eivote r\u00faca. Naru\u0161ili sa vz\u0165ahy v jeho rodine so s\u00farodencami, potom aj s milovan\u00fdm otcom. Bratia ho nemali radi, chceli ho zabi\u0165 a nakoniec ho predali do Egypta, tak\u017ee zo slobodn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd bol ob\u013e\u00faben\u00fd otcom, sa st\u00e1va otrok v cudzej krajine, kde nem\u00e1 absol\u00fatne nikoho bl\u00edzkeho. No a zd\u00e1 sa, \u017ee tam sa mu predsa len za\u010d\u00edna dari\u0165. Nesk\u00f4r bol v\u0161ak krivo obvinen\u00fd a dostal sa do v\u00e4zenia. Ke\u010f vo v\u00e4zen\u00ed pomohol jedn\u00e9mu \u010dloveku, ten mu s\u013e\u00fabil, \u017ee mu pom\u00f4\u017ee, ke\u010f sa dostane na slobodu. No aj ten na neho zabudol… Jozef mohol by\u0165 ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00fd \u010dlovek, ktor\u00fd je sklaman\u00fd, mohol sa \u013eutova\u0165 a narieka\u0165 nad svojou situ\u00e1ciou, mohol prejavi\u0165 odpor seba\u013e\u00fatos\u0165ou alebo svoj\u00edm postojom k Bohu, ktor\u00fd ako keby nedodr\u017eal, \u010do mu vysn\u00edval… No my o \u0148om \u010d\u00edtame, \u017ee zost\u00e1val verne pri Bohu: Hospodin bol s Jozefom a po\u017eehnal \u00faspechom v\u0161etko, \u010do robil (Genesis 39,21). A rovnak\u00fd bol aj vo vz\u0165ahu k \u013eu\u010fom: Mohol by\u0165 pln\u00fd neodpustenia a hnevu, pln\u00ed netrpezlivosti a sklamania vo\u010di svojim bratom, ale on s nimi jedn\u00e1 trpezlivo, zhovievavo a nakoniec im odp\u00fa\u0161\u0165a… <\/span><\/p>\n

2. S\u00e1ra – \u017eena, ktor\u00e1 nebola trpezliv\u00e1<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e1ra sa najprv rozhodne vyrie\u0161i\u0165 svoju situ\u00e1ciu tak, \u017ee d\u00e1 svoju sl\u00fa\u017eku Abrah\u00e1movi. A potom je netrpezliv\u00e1 k Hagar – znova, ke\u010f S\u00e1ra c\u00edti diskomfort, chce prebra\u0165 situ\u00e1ciu do vlastn\u00fdch r\u00fak a navrhne Hagar vyhna\u0165…<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e1rina netrpezlivos\u0165 obrala S\u00e1ru a Abrah\u00e1ma o rados\u0165 zo z\u00e1zraku splnen\u00e9ho zas\u013e\u00fabenia. T\u00fdm, \u017ee chceli ur\u00fdchli\u0165 nie\u010do, \u010do im P\u00e1n Boh chcel z l\u00e1sky da\u0165 ako dar, postavili sa do poz\u00edcie t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed preberaj\u00fa na seba jarmo zodpovednosti za t\u00fato situ\u00e1ciu. <\/span><\/p>\n

St\u00e1va sa aj tebe, \u017ee kv\u00f4li tomu, \u017ee si netrpezliv\u00fd preber\u00e1\u0161 na seba zodpovednos\u0165, vstupuje\u0161 do nie\u010doho, do \u010doho \u0165a P\u00e1n Boh nevol\u00e1 a \u010do \u0165a v kone\u010dnom d\u00f4sledku za\u0165a\u017e\u00ed? A vlastne aj ke\u010f je to dobr\u00e1 vec, v podstate sa z toho nem\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 ani radova\u0165 tak, ako by si chcel, lebo to mo\u017eno prinieslo \u010fal\u0161ie ne\u010dakan\u00e9 probl\u00e9my… S\u00e1rina netrpezlivos\u0165 vrhla na cel\u00fa jej rodinu ist\u00e9 prekliatie, rozdelenie, ktor\u00e9 sa od tej chv\u00edle \u0161\u00edrilo z gener\u00e1cie na gener\u00e1ciu. Hagarin syn Izmael a S\u00e1rin syn Iz\u00e1k s\u00fa dva rozdelen\u00e9 n\u00e1rody, ktor\u00e9 proti sebe bojuj\u00fa dodnes. Nemuselo sa to sta\u0165, keby S\u00e1ra nebola netrpezliv\u00e1… S\u00e1rina netrpezlivos\u0165 nabalila na seba \u010fal\u0161ie \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 rozhodnutia, a hriech netrpezlivosti sa premenil na hriech \u017eiarlivosti, hriech konfliktov, hriech odcudzenia a takmer by mala na svedom\u00ed aj dva \u013eudsk\u00e9 \u017eivoty, keby P\u00e1n Boh nezasiahol a Hagar s umieraj\u00facim die\u0165a\u0165om na p\u00fa\u0161ti nezachr\u00e1nil. <\/span><\/p>\n

Svojou trpezlivos\u0165ou alebo netrpezlivos\u0165ou m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 ovplyvni\u0165 \u010fal\u0161ie gener\u00e1cie v tvojej rodine. M\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 ovplyvni\u0165 to, ako sa spr\u00e1vaj\u00fa k sebe \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa okolo teba. M\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 prinies\u0165 po\u017eehnanie, alebo rozdelenie.<\/span><\/p>\n

P<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>re\u010do je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 by\u0165 trpezliv\u00fd? Ke\u010f sme trpezliv\u00ed, prejavujeme t\u00fdm d\u00f4veru P\u00e1nu Bohu. A trpezlivos\u0165 vo\u010di in\u00fdm \u013eu\u010fom znamen\u00e1 zase pokoru. Pln\u00e1 oddanos\u0165 cel\u00fdm srdcom sa prejavuje vtedy, ke\u010f neprest\u00e1vame veri\u0165, \u017ee sa situ\u00e1cia zmen\u00ed, resp. \u017ee Boh ju vyrie\u0161i. Trpezlivos\u0165 je \u010dakanie na Hospodina. No nem\u00fd\u013ete si trpezlivos\u0165 so zbabelos\u0165ou (\u013d. \u0160t\u00far)<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

(Anna \u010cin\u010dur\u00e1kov\u00e1-Tipulov\u00e1)<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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