{"id":4830,"date":"2022-03-08T23:05:15","date_gmt":"2022-03-08T22:05:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/?p=4830"},"modified":"2022-03-08T23:05:15","modified_gmt":"2022-03-08T22:05:15","slug":"preco-nepomahat-bezdomovcom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2022\/03\/08\/preco-nepomahat-bezdomovcom\/","title":{"rendered":"PRE\u010cO (NE)POM\u00c1HA\u0164 BEZDOMOVCOM?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Naj\u010dastej\u0161ie sa\u00a0 stret\u00e1vam s n\u00e1zormi,\u00a0<\/span><\/span>pre\u010do bezdomovcom NEPOM\u00c1HA\u0164,<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0tak\u017ee asi nebude treba k\u00a0tomuto prispieva\u0165 \u010fal\u0161\u00edm n\u00e1zorom. Vych\u00e1dzam z nieko\u013ekoro\u010dnej\u00a0osobnej sk\u00fasenosti z dobrovo\u013en\u00edckej pomoci, ktor\u00fa s priate\u013emi v\u00a0 O. Z. \u00dato\u010di\u0161te poskytujeme bezdomovcom.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n

Na\u0161e postoje a reakcie s\u00favisia s mierou na\u0161ej sebareflexie a empatie.<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0160tartovacia \u010diara<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Aby ste porozumeli, \u010do t\u00fdm mysl\u00edm,\u00a0p\u00f4jdem do detailov.<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0To, do akej rodiny sa narod\u00edme, si nikto nevyber\u00e1. Z na\u0161ej sk\u00fasenosti vypl\u00fdva, \u017ee drviv\u00e1 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina\u00a0bezdomovcov nedostala vo svojej rodine potrebne z\u00e1klady \u2013 prijatie, zdrav\u00fa rodi\u010dovsk\u00fa l\u00e1sku, vedenie k poriadku, sebadiscipl\u00edne, k zodpovednosti at\u010f. K tomu nejak\u00e9 dedi\u010dn\u00e9 vlastnosti, z toho vypl\u00fdvaj\u00face zl\u00e9 rozhodnutia, napr. pri vo\u013ebe partnera, priate\u013eov, alkohol\u00a0a pod. Ke\u010f sa tieto a x podobn\u00fdch\u00a0okolnost\u00ed spoj\u00ed v \u017eivote jedn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, vyd\u00e1 to na dos\u0165 probl\u00e9mov. T\u00fdm nechcem poveda\u0165, \u017ee jednotlivec nie je s\u00e1m zodpovedn\u00fd za svoje konanie a \u017ee je iba bezbrannou obe\u0165ou nepriazniv\u00fdch okolnost\u00ed. To, pre\u010do sa jeden \u010dlovek z podobne nepriazniv\u00fdch okolnost\u00ed dok\u00e1\u017ee vyhraba\u0165, resp. nepadn\u00fa\u0165 do probl\u00e9mov, a druh\u00fd do toho spadne, je pre m\u0148a \u00fapln\u00fdm tajomstvom, pred ktor\u00fdm m\u00e1m re\u0161pekt.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Tento re\u0161pekt ma vedie k tomu, \u017ee si nedovol\u00edm ods\u00fadi\u0165 nijak\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, ani povy\u0161ova\u0165 sa nad neho iba preto, \u017ee je \u0161pinav\u00fd.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Sk\u00fasme si predstavi\u0165 detaily<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Neviem, \u010do je to NEDOBROVO\u013dNE zosta\u0165 vonku na ulici v akomko\u013evek po\u010das\u00ed. <\/span><\/span><\/strong>Neviem, \u010do je to by\u0165 cel\u00fd de\u0148 vonku a nem\u00f4c\u0165 si umy\u0165 ruky, o sprche ani nehovor\u00edm. Neviem, \u010do je to nema\u0165 kam \u00eds\u0165 na WC. Neviem, \u010do je to ma\u0165 cel\u00fd svoj majetok v troch igelitk\u00e1ch. Neviem, \u010do je to pozera\u0165 cel\u00e9 dni a noci\u00a0do tv\u00e1re \u013eu\u010fom, ktor\u00ed mnou poh\u0155daj\u00fa, c\u00edtia vo\u010di mne odpor, strach, v tom najlep\u0161om pr\u00edpade sa tv\u00e1ria, \u017ee ma nevidia, aby som od nich n\u00e1hodou nie\u010do nechcela. Neviem, \u010do je to nevedie\u0165, kde budem dnes v noci\u00a0spa\u0165, \u010di ma niekto neprepadne, nezbije, nezn\u00e1siln\u00ed, neokradne o t\u00fdch 80 centov, ktor\u00e9 e\u0161te m\u00e1m do \u010fal\u0161ej \u201esoci\u00e1lky\u201c.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Ni\u010d z toho som nikdy neza\u017eila, ale silne tu\u0161\u00edm, \u017ee keby mi hrozilo iba nie\u010do z toho, je vysok\u00e1 pravdepodobnos\u0165 (na hranici istoty), \u017ee by sa zo m\u0148a dostalo to najhor\u0161ie, \u010do vo mne je.<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0Je ve\u013emi pravdepodobn\u00e9, \u017ee realitu \u017eivota na ulici by som sa\u00a0sna\u017eila vytesni\u0165 aspo\u0148 alkoholom, aby mi z toho nepresko\u010dilo; je ve\u013ek\u00e1 pravdepodobnos\u0165, \u017ee by mi tiekli nervy u\u017e len zo strachu a z hladu; takmer ur\u010dite by som po \u010dase prestala rie\u0161i\u0165 svoju d\u00f4stojnos\u0165 a\u00a0slu\u0161nos\u0165, a cel\u00fd m\u00f4j\u00a0\u017eivot by\u00a0sa z\u00fa\u017eil iba na 3 veci:\u00a0<\/span><\/span>alkohol, jedlo\u00a0a teplo.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong>Je dos\u0165 mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee po \u010dase by som sa \u201ezavesila\u201c na\u00a0 nejak\u00e9ho mu\u017ea, ktor\u00e9mu by som\u00a0 za \u201eochranu\u201c platila sexom. Rad\u0161ej tomuto jedn\u00e9mu, hoci nedobrovo\u013ene, ako rovnako nedobrovo\u013ene n\u00e1hodn\u00fdm n\u00e1siln\u00edkom.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Jednoducho \u2013 \u013eahko sa n\u00e1m pozer\u00e1 zvrchu na bezdomovcov, ke\u010f sme umyt\u00ed, s\u00fdti a doma n\u00e1s \u010dak\u00e1 tepl\u00e1 poste\u013e, sprcha, bezpe\u010die a bl\u00edzki \u013eudia.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Vzdajme sa vysok\u00fdch mor\u00e1lnych o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00ed od chudobn\u00fdch. Ani vzne\u0161en\u00fd s\u00facit bez skutkov nepom\u00e1ha.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Peniaze<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Kv\u00f4li vy\u0161\u0161ie uveden\u00e9mu obvykle \u013eu\u010fom\u00a0odpor\u00fa\u010dam DA\u0164 bezdomovcovi drobn\u00e9 pod\u013ea vlastn\u00e9ho uv\u00e1\u017eenia, hoci\u00a0VIEM, \u017ee si k\u00fapi alkohol.<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0Ak m\u00e1te z\u00e1brany da\u0165 peniaze (\u201eVe\u010f aj tak si k\u00fapi alkohol, nebudem podporova\u0165 jeho alkoholizmus!\u201c), m\u00f4\u017eete mu aj poveda\u0165, nech po\u010dk\u00e1 pred obchodom a k\u00fapte mu zop\u00e1r ro\u017ekov a\u00a0sal\u00e1mu alebo\u00a0pa\u0161t\u00e9tu. Na alkohol mu mo\u017eno d\u00e1 niekto in\u00fd. Ak sa rozhodnete, \u017ee nie je probl\u00e9m da\u0165 bezdomovcovi peniaze, potom je praktick\u00e9 nosi\u0165 vo vrecku drobn\u00e9 \u2013 10, 20, 50 centov, ako sa kto c\u00edti, aby sme v pohybe na ulici nemuseli otv\u00e1ra\u0165 kabelky, pe\u0148a\u017eenky, h\u013eada\u0165 drobn\u00e9.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Inform\u00e1cie<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Je dobr\u00e9 ma\u0165 preh\u013ead o mo\u017enosti pomoci v meste, nemus\u00edte rie\u0161i\u0165 ni\u010d na ulici, sta\u010d\u00ed poveda\u0165 zop\u00e1r adries, kde bezdomovec m\u00f4\u017ee z\u00edska\u0165 jedlo a noc\u013eah.<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0Ale v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina z nich to u\u017e v\u0161etko vie, a nov\u00e1\u010dikovia si to r\u00fdchlo zistia. Je zauj\u00edmav\u00e9 a\u00a0u\u017eito\u010dn\u00e9 z\u00edska\u0165 inform\u00e1cie aj od bezdomovcov, napr\u00edklad v\u00e1m radi porozpr\u00e1vaj\u00fa, ako sa dostali na ulicu, ak c\u00edtia z\u00a0va\u0161ej strany \u00factu.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Pom\u00e1ha\u0165 pom\u00e1haj\u00facim<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Je tu e\u0161te \u010fal\u0161ia mo\u017enos\u0165, ako pom\u00e1ha\u0165 bezdomovcom, a\u00a0to je\u00a0<\/span><\/span>podpora konkr\u00e9tnemu \u010dloveku<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0alebo organiz\u00e1cii, ktor\u00e1 pom\u00e1ha bezdomovcom.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Moja osobn\u00e1 sk\u00fasenos\u0165:\u00a0<\/span><\/span>jednej na\u0161ej klientke daroval dobr\u00fd a m\u00fadry \u010dlovek 200 eur.<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0Ke\u010f\u017ee spr\u00e1vne vytu\u0161il, \u017ee by s\u00a0t\u00fdmito peniazmi nevedela celkom dobre hospod\u00e1ri\u0165 (navy\u0161e ju \u201echr\u00e1nil\u201c jeden mu\u017e, ktor\u00fd by s\u00a0nimi isto vedel \u201espr\u00e1vne\u201c nalo\u017ei\u0165), tak tie peniaze dal ako dar do pokladne n\u00e1\u0161ho ob\u010dianskeho zdru\u017eenia. A potom sme jej\u00a0pravidelne mesa\u010dne na z\u00e1klade pokladni\u010dn\u00e9ho dokladu a\u00a0jej podpisu vyplatili \u010das\u0165 z tejto sumy. Cel\u00e9 to stoj\u00ed na \u00fa\u010dtovne zdokladovanej d\u00f4vere vo\u010di danej in\u0161tit\u00facii.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Pomoc in\u0161tit\u00facii<\/span><\/span><\/strong>, ktor\u00e1 pom\u00e1ha bezdomovcom, m\u00f4\u017ee ma\u0165 ve\u013ea foriem:\u00a0<\/span><\/span>najprv je dobr\u00e9 osobne sa zozn\u00e1mi\u0165 s\u00a0\u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed v\u00a0danej in\u0161tit\u00facii pomoc poskytuj\u00fa a\u00a0osobne si overi\u0165, na \u010do potrebuj\u00fa peniaze. Potom m\u00f4\u017eete bu\u010f pravidelne prispieva\u0165 nejakou \u010diastkou, alebo jednorazov\u00fdm finan\u010dn\u00fdm darom. Peniaze m\u00f4\u017eete darova\u0165 aj na konkr\u00e9tny n\u00e1kup napr. l\u00f4\u017eok, matracov, poste\u013enej bielizne, hygienick\u00fdch potrieb, pr\u00e1\u0161ku na pranie, potrav\u00edn na varenie, riadu at\u010f.<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0N\u00e1kup t\u00fdchto vec\u00ed je ve\u013emi jednoduch\u00e9 zdokladova\u0165 a overi\u0165. Nemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee by ste toto zdokladovanie nemali \u017eiada\u0165, nie je to ni\u010d, o \u010do by ste sa mali hanbi\u0165 po\u017eiada\u0165. Toto buduje d\u00f4veru a\u00a0va\u0161u istotu, \u017ee va\u0161e peniaze s\u00fa ve\u013emi cielene pou\u017eit\u00e9.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Na z\u00e1ver \u2026<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

S kolegami dobrovo\u013en\u00edkmi sa usilujeme o\u00a0<\/span><\/span>efekt\u00edvnu pomoc<\/span><\/span><\/strong>, preto\u017ee \u017eiadne sentiment\u00e1lne a \u013e\u00fatostiv\u00e9 pocity nikomu nepom\u00f4\u017eu; koniec koncov, na\u0161i klienti n\u00e1s z podobn\u00fdch pocitov u\u017e d\u00e1vno a ve\u013emi r\u00fdchlo vylie\u010dili.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Biblia hovor\u00ed: <\/span><\/span>Zadarmo ste dostali, zadarmo d\u00e1vajte. <\/i><\/span><\/span><\/strong>V\u00a0Kristovi m\u00e1me jasn\u00fd pr\u00edklad \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd prij\u00edmal \u013eud\u00ed bez predsudkov a\u00a0uj\u00edmal sa \u013eud\u00ed odstr\u010den\u00fdch a stojacich na okraji spolo\u010dnosti.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Uvedomujeme si, \u017ee\u00a0na\u0161e\u00a0dobr\u00e9 rodinn\u00e9 \u0161tartovacie okolnosti\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong>(a\u00a0z\u00a0nich vypl\u00fdvaj\u00faci slu\u0161n\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00fd \u0161tandard)<\/span><\/span>\u00a0sme dostali \u201ezadarmo\u201c ako\u00a0dar,<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0ktor\u00fd sme si ni\u010d\u00edm nezasl\u00fa\u017eili, ni\u010d\u00edm sme k\u00a0tomu neprispeli. Ja viem, mo\u017eno si poviete: \u201eJA som sa u\u010dil, a\u00a0preto m\u00e1m dobr\u00fa robotu, JA som si zarobil na byt, na n\u00e1jomn\u00e9, jedlo…\u201c M\u00e1te \u00fapln\u00fa pravdu! Sta\u010d\u00ed sa v\u0161ak na vec pozrie\u0165 aj trochu inak: to, \u017ee sme sa (niektor\u00ed aj dobre!) u\u010dili, je preto, \u017ee m\u00e1me zdrav\u00fa myse\u013e, intelekt. To je \u010dist\u00e1 n\u00e1hoda, dar, \u017eiadna na\u0161a z\u00e1sluha. Okrem toho sme mali aj rodi\u010dov, ktor\u00ed n\u00e1s (aj t\u00fdch lenivej\u0161\u00edch) do u\u010denia ob\u010das popohnali, skontrolovali, nastavili ur\u010dit\u00fd re\u017eim a\u00a0poriadok. Av\u0161ak ako sme mohli ovplyvni\u0165 to, ak\u00fdm rodi\u010dom sa narod\u00edme? Takto by sa dalo e\u0161te dlho pokra\u010dova\u0165.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00edtime zodpovednos\u0165 pom\u00e1ha\u0165 t\u00fdm, ktor\u00ed toto \u0161\u0165astie, tie\u017e istou \u201en\u00e1hodou\u201c, nemali.<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Ver\u00edme tomu, \u017ee aj \u017eivot s\u00e1m je dar a KA\u017dD\u00c1 \u013eudsk\u00e1 bytos\u0165 m\u00e1 svoju hodnotu a\u00a0d\u00f4stojnos\u0165. Sna\u017e\u00edme sa aspo\u0148 trochou prispie\u0165 na to, aby sme t\u00fdmto \u013eu\u010fom pom\u00e1hali zmierni\u0165 ich nedostatok, povzbudili ich k\u00a0h\u013eadaniu straten\u00fdch hodn\u00f4t, ale aj napomenuli k\u00a0vz\u00e1jomnej tolerancii a \u00a0v\u010fa\u010dnosti.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Na svete je ve\u013ea \u00fa\u017easn\u00fdch a\u00a0\u00fa\u017easne bohat\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed v\u00a0obrovsk\u00fdch rozmeroch pom\u00e1haj\u00fa druh\u00fdm.<\/span><\/span>\u00a0My v \u00dato\u010di\u0161ti\u00a0to rob\u00edme v\u00a0men\u0161om, ale s\u00a0rovnak\u00fdm presved\u010den\u00edm.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

A\u00a0k\u00a0tomu poz\u00fdvame aj v\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

(Dagmar Badiarov\u00e1)<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Naj\u010dastej\u0161ie sa\u00a0 stret\u00e1vam s n\u00e1zormi,\u00a0pre\u010do bezdomovcom NEPOM\u00c1HA\u0164,\u00a0tak\u017ee asi nebude treba k\u00a0tomuto prispieva\u0165 \u010fal\u0161\u00edm n\u00e1zorom. Vych\u00e1dzam z nieko\u013ekoro\u010dnej\u00a0osobnej sk\u00fasenosti z dobrovo\u013en\u00edckej pomoci, ktor\u00fa s priate\u013emi v\u00a0 O. Z. \u00dato\u010di\u0161te poskytujeme bezdomovcom.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,146,9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4830"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4830"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4830\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4831,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4830\/revisions\/4831"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4830"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4830"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4830"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}