{"id":4422,"date":"2021-08-23T17:15:41","date_gmt":"2021-08-23T15:15:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/?p=4422"},"modified":"2021-08-23T17:31:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-23T15:31:33","slug":"laska-je-siroky-pojem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2021\/08\/23\/laska-je-siroky-pojem\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00c1SKA JE \u0160IROK\u00dd POJEM"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u010casto po\u010d\u00favame o tom, ak\u00e1 je l\u00e1ska kr\u00e1sna, ako \u010dloveka o\u017eivuje, ako mu vlieva silu do \u017eil, pozdvihuje, pom\u00e1ha at\u010f. \u010co si v\u0161ak m\u00e1me po\u010da\u0165 v situ\u00e1cii, ke\u010f u\u017e, jednoducho, milova\u0165 nevl\u00e1dzeme, nevieme, nedok\u00e1\u017eeme, \u010di u\u017e vlastne podvedome ani nechceme? <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n

Pre\u017e\u00edva\u0165 tak\u00e9to situ\u00e1cie m\u00f4\u017eeme v\u00a0\u0165a\u017ek\u00fdch vz\u0165ahoch v zamestnan\u00ed alebo v zadrhnut\u00fdch partnersk\u00fdch vz\u0165ahoch, v\u00a0bolestn\u00fdch vz\u0165ahoch medzi rodi\u010dmi a de\u0165mi, a aj\u00a0v mnoh\u00fdch in\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch.<\/span>
L\u00e1ska je ve\u013emi \u0161irok\u00fd pojem. Prejavuje sa v r\u00f4znych podob\u00e1ch, naj\u010dastej\u0161ie: v kamar\u00e1tstve a priate\u013estve; v rodinn\u00fdch vz\u0165ahoch, pr\u00edbuzenstve, materstve a rodi\u010dovstve; ako mileneck\u00e1 a partnersk\u00e1 l\u00e1ska; ako starostliv\u00e1 l\u00e1ska o druh\u00fdch a aj ako l\u00e1ska navzdory v\u0161etk\u00e9mu…<\/span>
Ka\u017ed\u00e1 z t\u00fdchto pod\u00f4b l\u00e1sky sa prejavuje aj inak navonok. A hlavne \u2013 ka\u017ed\u00e1 z t\u00fdchto pod\u00f4b l\u00e1sky n\u00e1m prin\u00e1\u0161a in\u00e9 emocion\u00e1lne odozvy. Niekedy s\u00fa to pocity bla\u017eenosti, napr\u00edklad mal\u00e9 die\u0165a pre\u017e\u00edva v bl\u00edzkosti matky tot\u00e1lnu bla\u017eenos\u0165 a bezpe\u010die a to aj vo chv\u00edli, ke\u010f matka u\u017e tzv. melie z posledn\u00e9ho a sama mo\u017eno ani \u017eiadnu bla\u017eenos\u0165 nepre\u017e\u00edva. Kr\u00e1sne pocity pre\u017e\u00edva aj zamilovan\u00e1 dvojica, ktor\u00e1 e\u0161te nemala mo\u017enos\u0165 svojho partnera spozna\u0165 zo v\u0161etk\u00fdch str\u00e1n. Menej intenz\u00edvne emo\u010dn\u00e9 vlny prin\u00e1\u0161a kamar\u00e1tstvo a priate\u013estvo, av\u0161ak dlhodobo prin\u00e1\u0161a oporu, prijatie a in\u0161pir\u00e1ciu. <\/span>
Inak sa v\u0161ak ur\u010dite c\u00edtia miluj\u00faci rodi\u010dia, ke\u010f sa od nich ich dospievaj\u00face deti za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00fa odp\u00fatava\u0165 a ber\u00fa ich podvedome ako trena\u017e\u00e9r toho, \u010do rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 l\u00e1ska e\u0161te znesie… In\u00e9 pocity pre\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa man\u017eelia, ktor\u00ed sa navz\u00e1jom odcudzili, vidia v tom druhom u\u017e len pr\u00ed\u010dinu svojho ne\u0161\u0165astia, av\u0161ak st\u00e1le sa e\u0161te sna\u017eia svoj vz\u0165ah z nejak\u00fdch d\u00f4vodov udr\u017ea\u0165. A e\u0161te inak sa c\u00edtia \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed sa s l\u00e1skou staraj\u00fa o nevylie\u010dite\u013ene chor\u00fdch, o \u013eud\u00ed bez domova, o z\u00e1visl\u00fdch, zlo\u010dincov a pod.<\/span>
R\u00f4zne druhy l\u00e1sky n\u00e1m teda prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa r\u00f4zne aktu\u00e1lne pocity. Av\u0161ak l\u00e1ska je len jedna. M\u00e1 len r\u00f4zne prejavy. Dalo by sa poveda\u0165, \u017ee sk\u00fa\u0161kou pravosti l\u00e1sky s\u00fa a\u017e \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 chv\u00edle, ke\u010f u\u017e (moment\u00e1lne) nec\u00edtime ni\u010d kr\u00e1sne, obla\u017euj\u00face a povzn\u00e1\u0161aj\u00face, a predsa vytrv\u00e1me v rozhodnut\u00ed milova\u0165. A ke\u010f u\u017e ani mo\u017eno v\u00f4bec nevieme, ako milova\u0165, ke\u010f u\u017e sa zd\u00e1, \u017ee je v\u0161etko nani\u010d a \u017ee u\u017e ni\u010d \u201enefunguje\u201c. Vtedy sa m\u00f4\u017ee l\u00e1ska prejavi\u0165 t\u00fdm, \u017ee druh\u00e9ho \u010dloveka \u201elen\u201c trpezlivo zn\u00e1\u0161ame, re\u0161pektujeme a prij\u00edmame ho v jeho charakterovej ohrani\u010denosti. „Len“ zn\u00e1\u0161ame jeho grimasy, u\u0161tipa\u010dnos\u0165, zlomyse\u013enos\u0165, v\u00fdkyvy n\u00e1lad i ml\u010danie, ale ho neprovokujeme a h\u013ead\u00e1me, ako by sme mu nejako nezi\u0161tne a nevidite\u013ene prospeli, prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eame, ako mu neby\u0165 na \u0165archu. Tak\u00e9to prejavy l\u00e1sky sa m\u00f4\u017eu mo\u017eno zda\u0165 ako tie najni\u017e\u0161ie a naj\u0165a\u017e\u0161ie. S\u00fa h\u013eadan\u00edm ak\u00e9hosi najni\u017e\u0161ieho spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho menovate\u013ea ako e\u0161te mo\u017eno milova\u0165. Ale mo\u017eno pr\u00e1ve toto je najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edm svetlom v aktu\u00e1lnej \u013eudskej biede.<\/span>
In\u0161pir\u00e1cie a pomoc ako milova\u0165 aj v \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch, n\u00e1m poskytuje nieko\u013eko vec\u00ed. V prvom rade je to viera, \u017ee\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Boh miluje ka\u017ed\u00e9ho<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0\u010dloveka a vz\u0165ah s\u00a0n\u00edm je pre n\u00e1s prame\u0148om nekone\u010dnej l\u00e1sky k n\u00e1m sam\u00fdm (<\/span><\/span>je o n\u00e1s dobre postaran\u00e9<\/span><\/span><\/strong>…). Z \u00a0tohto prame\u0148a teda m\u00f4\u017eeme a m\u00e1me\u00a0\u010derpa\u0165 a d\u00e1va\u0165 \u010falej. Aj v\u00a0t\u00fdch najbolestnej\u0161\u00edch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch ver\u00edme, \u017ee Boh\u00a0n\u00e1s miluje viac, ako ktoko\u013evek na svete a jeho l\u00e1ska je v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ia aj ako ak\u00e9ko\u013evek zlo, ktor\u00e9 od druh\u00fdch ok\u00fa\u0161ame. Na to nadv\u00e4zuje presved\u010denie, \u017ee <\/span><\/span>to jedin\u00e9, \u010do\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/span>po na\u0161ej smrti ostane, bude pr\u00e1ve len to, \u010do sme urobili z\u00a0nezi\u0161tnej l\u00e1sky<\/span><\/span><\/strong>. A nikto si to ani nemusel v\u0161imn\u00fa\u0165. Teda okrem Boha. \u010eal\u0161\u00ed d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd aspekt kres\u0165ansk\u00e9ho poh\u013eadu na akt\u00edvnu l\u00e1sku je op\u00edsan\u00fd v 25. kapitole Mat\u00fa\u0161ovho evanjelia, kde sa s\u00e1m Je\u017ei\u0161 stoto\u017e\u0148uje s ka\u017ed\u00fdm, komu bolo preuk\u00e1zan\u00e9 ak\u00e9ko\u013evek dobro alebo, naopak, odopret\u00e9. Je\u017ei\u0161 hovor\u00ed: „<\/span><\/span>\u010coko\u013evek ste urobili tomu najposlednej\u0161iemu<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0\u010dloveku, mne ste urobili. A \u010doko\u013evek ste komuko\u013evek odopreli, mne ste odopreli…“ Ke\u010f teda milujeme „nemilovate\u013en\u00e9ho“ \u010dloveka, preukazujeme t\u00fdm l\u00e1sku samotn\u00e9mu Bohu. Nie je to skvel\u00e1, in\u0161piruj\u00faca a motivuj\u00faca my\u0161lienka?! <\/span><\/span>
Ako kres\u0165ania m\u00e1me jednu siln\u00fa zbra\u0148, ale aj v\u00fdzvu: <\/span><\/span>\u017eehnajte!<\/b><\/span><\/span>\u00a0Ke\u010f toti\u017e druh\u00e9mu \u017eehn\u00e1me, zvol\u00e1vame na neho Bo\u017eie dobro, ktor\u00e9 prevy\u0161uje v\u0161etko dobr\u00e9\u00a0aj zl\u00e9 v na\u0161ich \u017eivotoch. Ke\u010f druh\u00e9mu \u017eehn\u00e1me, odovzd\u00e1vame situ\u00e1ciu, v ktorej sa nach\u00e1dzame, Bo\u017eej v\u0161emoh\u00facnosti, L\u00e1ske, prozrete\u013enosti, milosrdenstvu a aj definit\u00edvnej spravodlivosti. U\u00a0Boha je tak ur\u010dite na\u0161a situ\u00e1cia v t\u00fdch najlep\u0161\u00edch ruk\u00e1ch.\u00a0Ak \u017eehn\u00e1me v Bo\u017eom mene, \u017eehnanie n\u00e1m tak akosi „pri\u013ene na ruk\u00e1ch“, v srdci, v celom \u017eivote. M\u00f4\u017ee to by\u0165 aj dlh\u00e1 cesta. Av\u0161ak zmyslupln\u00e1 a zacielen\u00e1. A v neposlednom rade n\u00e1m d\u00f4le\u017eitou oporou a in\u0161pir\u00e1ciou m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 aj poh\u013ead na \u013eud\u00ed v\u00a0na\u0161om okol\u00ed a v\u00a0kres\u0165ansk\u00fdch dejin\u00e1ch, ktor\u00ed takto l\u00e1sku dok\u00e1zali\u00a0\u010derpa\u0165 a n\u00e1sledne odovzd\u00e1va\u0165 \u010falej. S\u00fa n\u00e1m dodnes ak\u00fdmsi symbolom toho, \u017ee mo\u017eno milova\u0165 po mal\u00fdch kr\u00f4\u010dkoch kedyko\u013evek, kdeko\u013evek a v\u00a0ak\u00fdchko\u013evek podmienkach.\u00a0A pr\u00e1ve tak\u00e1to vytrvala l\u00e1ska dok\u00e1\u017ee premie\u0148a\u0165 \u013eudsk\u00e9 srdce. \u010clovek v\u0161ak s\u00e1m od seba nedok\u00e1\u017ee milova\u0165 \u013eud\u00ed vo svojom okol\u00ed. Mus\u00edme\u00a0<\/span><\/span>prosi\u0165 Boha, aby ich On s\u00e1m miloval\u00a0prostredn\u00edctvom n\u00e1s<\/span><\/span><\/strong>.<\/span><\/span>

Bo\u017ee, viem, \u017ee neprikazuje\u0161 ni\u010d nemo\u017en\u00e9, Ty pozn\u00e1\u0161 lep\u0161ie ako ja okolnosti mojich vz\u0165ahov a aj moje slabosti. Dobre vie\u0161, \u017ee nedok\u00e1\u017eem naplno milova\u0165 \u013eud\u00ed vo svojom okol\u00ed. Pros\u00edm, premie\u0148aj moje srdce, ukazuj mi, ako milova\u0165 a ty s\u00e1m miluj \u013eud\u00ed v\u00a0mojom okol\u00ed prostredn\u00edctvom m\u0148a. Pon\u00fakam sa ti ako spolupracovn\u00edk na tvojom diele l\u00e1sky v\u00a0mojom okol\u00ed. Pom\u00f4\u017e mi milova\u0165! A \u017eehnaj ty s\u00e1m \u013eu\u010fom okolo\u00a0m\u0148a.<\/i><\/span>

P.S. Do vz\u0165ahu l\u00e1sky, samozrejme, patr\u00ed aj m\u00fadros\u0165 pri rozli\u0161ovan\u00ed toho, ako k \u013eu\u010fom vo svojom okol\u00ed pristupova\u0165. Niekedy je dobr\u00e9 ich v krajn\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch len\u00a0zn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165, prij\u00edma\u0165, tolerova\u0165 a re\u0161pektova\u0165. Niekedy sa v\u0161ak v r\u00e1mci skuto\u010dnej l\u00e1sky treba vymedzi\u0165, nastavi\u0165 jasn\u00e9 hranice, \u010di dokonca vyu\u017ei\u0165 krajn\u00e9 prostriedky na ochranu vlastnej integrity.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u010casto po\u010d\u00favame o tom, ak\u00e1 je l\u00e1ska kr\u00e1sna, ako \u010dloveka o\u017eivuje, ako mu vlieva silu do \u017eil, pozdvihuje, pom\u00e1ha at\u010f. \u010co si v\u0161ak m\u00e1me po\u010da\u0165 v situ\u00e1cii, ke\u010f u\u017e, jednoducho, milova\u0165 nevl\u00e1dzeme, nevieme, nedok\u00e1\u017eeme, \u010di u\u017e vlastne podvedome ani nechceme?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[146,4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4422"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4422"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4422\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4430,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4422\/revisions\/4430"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}