{"id":4342,"date":"2021-05-31T11:55:32","date_gmt":"2021-05-31T09:55:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/?p=4342"},"modified":"2021-05-31T11:55:33","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T09:55:33","slug":"trpezlivost-je-umenie-dufat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2021\/05\/31\/trpezlivost-je-umenie-dufat\/","title":{"rendered":"TRPEZLIVOS\u0164 JE UMENIE D\u00daFA\u0164"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nasleduj\u00faci pr\u00edbeh ukazuje, ak\u00e1 m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 trpezlivos\u0165 mocn\u00e1.<\/span>
Anna pracovala v nemocnici ako o\u0161etrovate\u013eka. Na oddelen\u00ed mali na starosti ve\u013ea pacientov. Nikto im v\u0161ak nedal tak ve\u013emi zabra\u0165 ako pani B.<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n

Ka\u017ed\u00e1 sestra sa desila, ke\u010f zistila, \u017ee ju bude ma\u0165 pridelen\u00fa po\u010das svojej slu\u017eby. Pani B. sa zotavovala po oper\u00e1cii bedrov\u00e9ho kr\u010dku, ktor\u00fd si pri p\u00e1de zlomila. Ka\u017ed\u00fd de\u0148 udr\u017eiavala \u201esvoju\u201c sestru v neust\u00e1lom pohybe. Bolo jej bu\u010f prive\u013emi teplo alebo, naopak, zima, o chv\u00ed\u013eu potrebovala \u010derstv\u00fa vodu, poda\u0165 to \u010di ono, vymeni\u0165 plachtu, natrias\u0165 vank\u00fa\u0161… Zvonila na sestru ka\u017ed\u00e9 dve-tri min\u00faty. Ob\u010das bolo po\u010du\u0165 a\u017e na chodbu, ako sa vyhr\u00e1\u017ea, \u017ee svojim pr\u00edbuzn\u00fdm povie, ako zle sa tu o \u0148u staraj\u00fa… <\/i><\/span><\/span>
Anna sa v\u0161ak rozhodla, \u017ee sa pani B. nebude vyh\u00fdba\u0165. Vzala to ako v\u00fdzvu. A hoci toho mala v ten de\u0148 naozaj ve\u013ea, rozhodla se, \u017ee sa pok\u00fasi by\u0165 neskuto\u010dne trpezliv\u00e1 vo\u010di tejto pacientke. Chcela splni\u0165 v\u0161etky jej priania e\u0161te sk\u00f4r, ako ich ona sama vyslov\u00ed. <\/i><\/span><\/span>
\u201eM\u00e1te \u010derstv\u00fa vodu?\u201c sp\u00fdtala sa Anna, ke\u010f nakukla do izby.<\/i><\/span><\/span>
O p\u00e4\u0165 min\u00fat u\u017e tam bola zase: <\/i><\/span>
\u201eNech\u00fdba v\u00e1m ni\u010d?\u201c <\/i><\/span><\/span>
A o chv\u00ed\u013eu znova: <\/i><\/span>
\u201eVyzer\u00e1 to, \u017ee bude svieti\u0165 slnko. M\u00e1m v\u00e1m roztiahnu\u0165 \u017eal\u00fazie?\u201c <\/i><\/span><\/span>
\u201eDostali ste dnes obed na\u010das?\u201c <\/i><\/span><\/span>
„Prinesiem V\u00e1m \u010daj?“, a tak to pokra\u010dovalo a\u017e do ve\u010dera.<\/i><\/span>
Pani B. zo za\u010diatku tla\u010dila zvon\u010dek tak, ako predt\u00fdm – teda ka\u017ed\u00fdch p\u00e1r min\u00fat. Pred ve\u010derou ju v\u0161ak u\u017e Annina trpezlivos\u0165 za\u010dala prem\u00e1ha\u0165, lebo je takmer v\u017edy predbehla a p\u00fdtala sa jej na jej prianie sk\u00f4r, ako stihla zazvoni\u0165 a vyslovi\u0165 ho…<\/i><\/span><\/span>
\u201eMysleli sme si, \u017ee ide o zl\u00fa star\u00fa \u017eenu, ale ona asi cel\u00fd \u010das trpela samotou,\u201c povedala potom Anna. \u201eNapadlo ma, \u017ee m\u00e1 vlastne strach. Ke\u010f mala istotu, \u017ee o nej viem, dok\u00e1zala sa uvo\u013eni\u0165.\u201c <\/i><\/span><\/span>
Na konci slu\u017eby bola Anna vy\u010derpan\u00e1, ale spokojn\u00e1. Po\u010das ve\u010dere pri\u0161iel za pani B. na n\u00e1v\u0161tevu jej syn. Bol prekvapen\u00fd, ak\u00fa mala skvel\u00fa n\u00e1ladu: \u201eToto je Anna. Je to najlep\u0161ia sestra, ak\u00fa som kedy spoznala.\u201c<\/i><\/span><\/span>

Ur\u010dite je ove\u013ea \u013eah\u0161ie by\u0165 trpezliv\u00fd s \u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed maj\u00fa trpezlivos\u0165 s nami. Ak sa v\u0161ak po stretnut\u00ed s netrpezliv\u00fdm \u010dlovekom uzatvor\u00edme do seba, str\u00e1came mo\u017enos\u0165 vidie\u0165, ak\u00fa moc by na\u0161a trpezlivos\u0165 mohla ma\u0165. Pr\u00e1ve v tak\u00fdchto zlo\u017eit\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch n\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017ee prekvapi\u0165, ako dok\u00e1\u017ee pr\u00e1ve na\u0161a trpezlivos\u0165 \u013eud\u00ed premeni\u0165, ak sa rozhodneme prejavi\u0165 im skuto\u010dn\u00fa l\u00e1sku.<\/span><\/span>
(<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>G. Chapman) <\/span><\/span>

St\u013ap, ktor\u00fd n\u00e1s podopiera<\/b><\/span><\/span>
Vies\u0165 \u00faspe\u0161n\u00fd \u017eivot n\u00e1m pom\u00e1ha mno\u017estvo dobr\u00fdch n\u00e1vykov a cnost\u00ed. Jednou z t\u00fdch najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161\u00edch je trpezlivos\u0165. A t\u00e1 n\u00e1m nespadne do lona len tak sama od seba, mus\u00edme sa o \u0148u usilova\u0165, mus\u00edme sa jej u\u010di\u0165. Trpezlivos\u0165 je toti\u017e ako st\u013ap, ktor\u00fd podopiera \u017eivot (a to nielen v \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch).<\/span><\/span>
TRPEZLIVOS\u0164 sa po gr\u00e9cky povie „hypomone\u201c a znamen\u00e1 nie\u010do nies\u0165, znies\u0165, vydr\u017ea\u0165, odola\u0165. Latinsk\u00fd v\u00fdraz pre trpezlivos\u0165 je \u201epatientia\u201c a s\u00favis\u00ed so slovom \u201epati\u201c, ktor\u00e9 znamen\u00e1 trpie\u0165. Trpezlivos\u0165 okrem in\u00e9ho znamen\u00e1 zn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 toho druh\u00e9ho aj s jeho chybami a slabos\u0165ami. To mi \u010dasto pripad\u00e1 \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 – trp\u00edm kv\u00f4li niekomu druh\u00e9mu, a predsa stoj\u00edm na jeho strane. Nem\u00e1m ni\u010d proti nemu a prij\u00edmam ho tak\u00e9ho, ak\u00fd je. A to je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 nielen pre mlad\u00fdch, ale hlavne pre \u013eud\u00ed vo vysokom veku, preto\u017ee t\u00ed sa u\u017e nedok\u00e1\u017eu nejako z\u00e1sadne meni\u0165. Ak chc\u00fa \u017ei\u0165 v pokoji so svoj\u00edm okol\u00edm, musia sa navz\u00e1jom, i t\u00fdch ostatn\u00fdch, prij\u00edma\u0165 tak\u00fdch, ak\u00ed s\u00fa. A trpezlivos\u0165 toho druh\u00e9ho podopiera. C\u00edti podporu, \u00fa\u010das\u0165 aj bezpe\u010die. Nemus\u00ed sa hanbi\u0165 za svoje slabosti.<\/span><\/span>
Jeden star\u00fd mu\u017e, ktor\u00e9ho som si v\u017edy v\u00e1\u017eil pre jeho l\u00e1skavos\u0165 a \u017eivos\u0165, sa mi zveril, \u017ee sa s prib\u00fadaj\u00facim vekom stal podr\u00e1\u017edenej\u0161\u00ed a netrpezlivej\u0161\u00ed. Trpezlivos\u0165 teda treba z\u00e1merne pestova\u0165. Star\u00fd \u010dlovek sa mus\u00ed rozl\u00fa\u010di\u0165 s il\u00faziou, \u017ee v\u0161etko urob\u00ed tak r\u00fdchlo ako za mladi, mus\u00ed zabudn\u00fa\u0165 na svoju vo\u013eakedaj\u0161iu istotu a spo\u013eahlivos\u0165. V\u0161etko mu bude trva\u0165 dlh\u0161ie. Telo zoslablo. Preto sa mus\u00ed nau\u010di\u0165 zn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 a prija\u0165 aj s\u00e1m seba. A to plat\u00ed nielen pre star\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, ale pre ka\u017ed\u00e9ho, ve\u010f ako \u010dasto sa n\u00e1m nie\u010do nepodar\u00ed hne\u010f na prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t! S trpezlivos\u0165ou by mal \u00eds\u0165 ruka v ruke aj humor. Preto\u017ee \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed prij\u00edmaj\u00fa svoje slabosti a nedokonalosti s humorom a dok\u00e1\u017eu sa im zasmia\u0165, u\u013eah\u010duj\u00fa \u017eivot sebe aj svojmu okoliu, a tak mu poskytuj\u00fa mo\u017enos\u0165 lep\u0161ie s nimi zaobch\u00e1dza\u0165.<\/span><\/span>
\u017diadny \u010dlovek nie je trpezliv\u00fd s\u00e1m od seba \u2013 existuje ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed sa vyzna\u010duj\u00fa extr\u00e9mnou netrpezlivos\u0165ou. Maj\u00fa dojem, \u017ee u lek\u00e1ra alebo v obchode musia pr\u00eds\u0165 okam\u017eite na rad. Ke\u010f nie\u010do potrebuj\u00fa, musia to dosta\u0165 hne\u010f… Nie s\u00fa ochotn\u00ed \u010daka\u0165. <\/span><\/span>
Podstatn\u00fdm aspektom trpezlivosti je necha\u0165 veci tak\u00e9, ak\u00e9 s\u00fa, bez toho, aby sme ich hodnotili, teda s\u00fahlasi\u0165, \u017ee nie\u010do m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 tak\u00e9, jak\u00e9 to pr\u00e1ve je. Trpezliv\u00fd \u010dlovek zn\u00e1\u0161a aj s\u00e1m seba tak\u00e9ho, ak\u00fd je. Dovo\u013euje si ma\u0165 r\u00f4zne n\u00e1lady, obmedzenia aj chyby. Prestal \u010doko\u013evek posudzova\u0165, kritizova\u0165 a zakazova\u0165.<\/span><\/span>
Trpezlivos\u0165 sa v mnohom podob\u00e1 vyrovnanosti. Vyrovnan\u00fd \u010dlovek je v\u017edy s\u00fa\u010dasne aj trpezliv\u00fd. A predsa znamen\u00e1 trpezlivos\u0165 e\u0161te nie\u010do in\u00e9. V antickom Gr\u00e9cku bol predobrazom trpezlivosti trpiaci Odysseus. Stoick\u00e1 filozofia veleb\u00ed trpezlivos\u0165 ako cnos\u0165, ktor\u00e1 n\u00e1m umo\u017e\u0148uje by\u0165 p\u00e1nom toho, \u010do sa n\u00e1m zd\u00e1 neznesite\u013en\u00e9. Trpezlivos\u0165 b\u00fdva ozna\u010dovan\u00e1 za cnos\u0165 m\u00fadrych, naz\u00fdvaj\u00fa ju kore\u0148om a str\u00e1\u017eky\u0148ou v\u0161etk\u00fdch cnost\u00ed. Sv\u00e4t\u00fd Pavol zase d\u00e1va v liste R\u00edmskym trpezlivos\u0165 do s\u00favislosti s n\u00e1dejou:<\/span><\/span> L<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span>ebo vieme, \u017ee s\u00fa\u017eenie vedie k vytrvalosti,\u00a0vytrvalos\u0165 k osved\u010denosti, osved\u010denos\u0165 k n\u00e1deji.<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>..<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span> <\/i>(5,3-4<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>). <\/i><\/span><\/span>Ten, kto trpezlivo zn\u00e1\u0161a \u017eivot so v\u0161etk\u00fdmi prek\u00e1\u017ekami, dosiahne vytrvalos\u0165, h\u00fa\u017eevnatos\u0165 a odolnos\u0165 a rastie v \u0148om n\u00e1dej v to, \u010do ho \u010dak\u00e1. Preto\u017ee d\u00fafame v nie\u010do, \u010do e\u0161te nevid\u00edme, m\u00f4\u017eeme s trpezlivos\u0165ou obst\u00e1\u0165 vo v\u0161etkom, \u010do prin\u00e1\u0161a n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot: <\/span><\/span>Ale ak sa n\u00e1dejame tomu, \u010do nevid\u00edme, to trpezlivo o\u010dak\u00e1vame. (R\u00edmskym 8,25)<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>
(A. Gr\u00fcn)
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Ste trpezliv\u00ed?<\/b><\/span><\/span>
V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina z n\u00e1s sk\u00f4r asi ani ve\u013emi nie. A pritom sa trpezlivos\u0165 od n\u00e1s neust\u00e1le o\u010dak\u00e1va. Ak sa chceme niekam dovola\u0165, v sl\u00fachadle zaznie nejak\u00e1 hudba, ktor\u00e1 n\u00e1s m\u00e1 udr\u017ea\u0165 v dobrej n\u00e1lade, k\u00fdm to na druhom konci kone\u010dne niekto zodvihne. V preplnen\u00fdch \u010dak\u00e1r\u0148ach nadobudneme presved\u010denie, \u017ee sme sa dostali do o\u010distca, nehovoriac o \u010dakan\u00ed na v\u00fdsledky lek\u00e1rskeho vy\u0161etrenia \u010di na nejak\u00fd nepr\u00edjemn\u00fd medic\u00ednsky z\u00e1krok – u\u017e aby sme to mali za sebou! M\u00e1lokto dok\u00e1\u017ee pokojne st\u00e1\u0165 alebo sedie\u0165, \u010d\u00edta\u0165 si, rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa \u010di po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 vnucovan\u00fa hudbu, alebo len tak ticho prem\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165… Oby\u010dajne netrpezlivo pre\u0161\u013eapujeme, neust\u00e1le kontrolujeme hodinky, o\u010dami vis\u00edme na dver\u00e1ch…<\/span>
Kto je naozaj trpezliv\u00fd? Ten, u koho v\u00ed\u0165az\u00ed st\u00e1los\u0165, v\u00fddr\u017e a odvaha nad sklaman\u00edm, strachom a hnevom; ten, kto sa hne\u010f nevzd\u00e1va a kto to v pohode sk\u00fasi e\u0161te raz; ten, kto v utrpen\u00ed nevid\u00ed len nezmyselnos\u0165, ale sna\u017e\u00ed sa to v\u0161etko pokojne nies\u0165.
<\/span><\/span>L<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>en\u017ee trpezlivos\u0165 neb\u00fdva oby\u010dajne na\u0161ou silnou str\u00e1nkou, rovnako ako vytrvalos\u0165. A \u017ee sa hovor\u00ed „pon\u00e1h\u013eaj sa pomaly“? My predsa chceme pokrok, \u00faspech a zdravie \u2013 a to hne\u010f! <\/span><\/span>V\u0161etko c<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>hce v\u0161ak svoj \u010das. V\u00fdvoj a dozrievanie znamen\u00e1 proces. Ani kvet sa nerozvije odrazu. Aj semeno kl\u00ed\u010di len postupne a pomaly. Podobne aj uzdravovanie chor\u00e9ho je cel\u00fd proces. By\u0165 trpezliv\u00fd znamen\u00e1 vytrva\u0165, vedie\u0165 m\u00fadro vy\u010dk\u00e1va\u0165, k\u00fdm sa neobjav\u00ed rie\u0161enie alebo k\u00fdm sa nen\u00e1jde odpove\u010f.
Nie je \u013eahk\u00e9 ma\u0165 trpezlivos\u0165 s vlastn\u00fdmi bremenami. Schopnos\u0165 nie\u010do vydr\u017ea\u0165 sa v dne\u0161n\u00fdch \u010dasoch viac a viac vytr\u00e1ca. A predsa ju nevyhnutne potrebujeme, aby sme sa dok\u00e1zali vysporiada\u0165 so \u017eivotom a aby sme dok\u00e1zali rie\u0161i\u0165 probl\u00e9my n\u00e1\u0161ho sveta s n\u00e1dejou. Napr\u00edklad aj v zmysle hesla mark\u00fdza de Vauvenargues: Trpezlivos\u0165 je umenie d\u00fafa\u0165.<\/span><\/span>
No a vieme, \u017ee trpezlivos\u0165 je ovoc\u00edm Ducha Bo\u017eieho, tak sa nechajme n\u00edm vies\u0165!<\/span>
(S. Bachlov\u00e1)<\/span>

Vo v\u0161etkej pokore, ne\u017enosti a\u00a0trpezlivosti, zn\u00e1\u0161ajte sa vospolok v l\u00e1ske.<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em> (Efezsk\u00fdm 4,2)<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em>
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Nech v\u00e1m P\u00e1n vedie srdce k Bo\u017eej l\u00e1ske a ku Kristovej\u00a0trpezlivosti.<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em> (2. Tesalonick\u00fdm 3,5)<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em>
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Aj vy podobne vynalo\u017ete v\u0161etko \u00fasilie a prid\u00e1vajte k viere cnos\u0165, k cnosti pozn\u00e1vanie,\u00a0k pozn\u00e1vaniu zdr\u017eanlivos\u0165, k zdr\u017eanlivosti trpezlivos\u0165, k trpezlivosti pobo\u017enos\u0165…<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em> (2. Petra 1,5-6)<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em>
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Ako vyvolen\u00ed Bo\u017e\u00ed, sv\u00e4t\u00ed a milovan\u00ed, oble\u010dte teda srde\u010dn\u00e9 milosrdenstvo, dobrotivos\u0165, pokoru, krotkos\u0165,\u00a0trpezlivos\u0165.<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em> (Kolosensk\u00fdm 3,12)<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em>
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V<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em>ieme, \u017ee s\u00fa\u017eenie vedie k vytrvalosti,\u00a0vytrvalos\u0165 k osved\u010denosti, osved\u010denos\u0165 k n\u00e1deji.\u00a0A n\u00e1dej nezahanbuje, lebo l\u00e1ska Bo\u017eia je n\u00e1m rozliata v srdciach skrze Ducha Sv\u00e4t\u00e9ho, ktor\u00fd je n\u00e1m dan\u00fd.<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em> (R\u00edmskym 5,3-5)<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nasleduj\u00faci pr\u00edbeh ukazuje, ak\u00e1 m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 trpezlivos\u0165 mocn\u00e1.Anna pracovala v nemocnici ako o\u0161etrovate\u013eka. Na oddelen\u00ed mali na starosti ve\u013ea pacientov. Nikto im v\u0161ak nedal tak ve\u013emi zabra\u0165 ako pani B.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[146,4,9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4342"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4342"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4342\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4343,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4342\/revisions\/4343"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4342"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4342"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4342"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}