{"id":4308,"date":"2021-04-21T15:26:02","date_gmt":"2021-04-21T13:26:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/?p=4308"},"modified":"2021-04-21T15:26:02","modified_gmt":"2021-04-21T13:26:02","slug":"zivot-plny-prekazok","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2021\/04\/21\/zivot-plny-prekazok\/","title":{"rendered":"\u017dIVOT PLN\u00dd PREK\u00c1\u017dOK"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pripravujte cestu P\u00e1novi, vyrovn\u00e1vajte Mu chodn\u00edky;\u00a0Ka\u017ed\u00e9 \u00fadolie nech je vyrovnan\u00e9, ka\u017ed\u00fd vrch a kopec zn\u00ed\u017een\u00fd; \u010do je kriv\u00e9, nech sa vyrovn\u00e1, a hrbo\u013eat\u00e9 cesty nech s\u00fa uhladen\u00e9.\u00a0A v\u0161etci \u013eudia uvidia spasenie Bo\u017eie.<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span> (Luk\u00e1\u0161 3,4-6)<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Raz sme sa s priate\u013emi vybrali na spolo\u010dn\u00fa dovolenku. Mala to by\u0165 dlh\u00e1 a \u010falek\u00e1 cesta. Ve\u013emi sme sa na \u0148u te\u0161ili, v\u0161etko sme starostlivo vopred pripravili, tak\u017ee sme si v\u00f4bec neprip\u00fa\u0161\u0165ali nejak\u00e9 ve\u013ek\u00e9 probl\u00e9my a nepr\u00edjemnosti. Realita v\u0161ak bola in\u00e1.\u00a0Hne\u010f na za\u010diatku cesty n\u00e1s prekvapila siln\u00e1 b\u00farka s nepr\u00edjemn\u00fdm lejakom, nevideli sme ani na krok, stiera\u010de ani nest\u00edhali stiera\u0165 to\u013ek\u00e9 pr\u00fady vody. Potom sme sa dostali do nieko\u013ekohodinovej z\u00e1pchy… Nasledovali obch\u00e1dzky, z\u00e1kazy vjazdu, ot\u00e1\u010danie sa sp\u00e4\u0165 a n\u00e1vrat o desiatky kilometrov aj napriek pou\u017eitej GPS. A e\u0161te defekt… Do cie\u013ea sme pri\u0161li ve\u013emi neskoro a ve\u013emi unaven\u00ed, ale napriek v\u0161etk\u00e9mu ve\u013emi \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed! Boli sme radi, \u017ee sme to v polovi\u010dke cesty nevzdali a neoto\u010dili domov. Dnes na t\u00fa cestu u\u017e len spom\u00edname. Aj preto, \u017ee sme na nej pre\u017eili ve\u013ea solidarity a vz\u00e1jomnej pomoci. A dovolenka bola aj napriek nepriazniv\u00e9mu za\u010diatku predsa len kr\u00e1sna.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Aj cesta n\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivota vyzer\u00e1 podobne. Taktie\u017e s\u00fa na nej r\u00f4zne prek\u00e1\u017eky. No niekedy si prek\u00e1\u017eky, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1m br\u00e1nia \u00eds\u0165 \u010falej, sp\u00f4sobujeme aj my sami. Napr\u00edklad, ke\u010f si mysl\u00edme, \u017ee sme \u201emajstrami sveta\u201c, ke\u010f n\u00e1s nezauj\u00edmaj\u00fa probl\u00e9my druh\u00fdch, alebo m\u00e1me z\u00a0nie\u010doho strach, sme od nie\u010doho z\u00e1visl\u00ed, nechceme odp\u00fa\u0161\u0165a\u0165 alebo prij\u00edma\u0165 druh\u00fdch s ich odli\u0161nos\u0165ami… \u010eal\u0161ie prek\u00e1\u017eky, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1m br\u00e1nia \u00eds\u0165 \u010falej, n\u00e1m m\u00f4\u017eu sp\u00f4sobi\u0165 in\u00ed \u013eudia, \u010dasto aj ve\u013emi bl\u00edzki. V\u017edy, ke\u010f ostaneme osamel\u00ed a opusten\u00ed, ke\u010f n\u00e1s zrad\u00ed priate\u013e, ke\u010f n\u00e1s niekto zran\u00ed, a my sa nedok\u00e1\u017eeme pohn\u00fa\u0165 z miesta, zost\u00e1vame ochromen\u00ed st\u00e1\u0165. Ako m\u00e1me pokra\u010dova\u0165 \u010falej?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Mus\u00edme si uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee na na\u0161ej ceste \u017eivotom nie sme sami. N\u00e1\u0161 dobr\u00fd Boh sa t\u00fa\u017ei s ka\u017ed\u00fdm z\u00a0n\u00e1s stretn\u00fa\u0165, chce, aby sme boli \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed a spokojn\u00ed. On n\u00e1m zas\u013e\u00fabil, \u017ee bude st\u00e1le s\u00a0nami a bude n\u00e1m pom\u00e1ha\u0165 po cel\u00fd n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot. Na n\u00e1s je, aby sme mu pripravili cestu, aby sme odstr\u00e1nili v\u0161etko, \u010do n\u00e1m br\u00e1ni vn\u00edma\u0165 jeho bl\u00edzkos\u0165. A ke\u010f je n\u00e1m skuto\u010dne ve\u013emi \u0165a\u017eko a nedok\u00e1\u017eeme u\u017e urobi\u0165 v\u00f4bec ni\u010d, volajme: \u201ePane, pr\u00ed\u010f!\u201c<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Vo svojom \u017eivote \u010dasto vych\u00e1dzame z predstavy, \u017ee k \u00faspe\u0161n\u00e9mu a\u00a0hodnotn\u00e9mu \u017eivotu nevyhnutne potrebujeme „sv\u00e4t\u00fd pokoj“ \u010di\u017ee ak\u00e9si pohodlie. Preto si mysl\u00edme, \u017ee sa za ka\u017ed\u00fa cenu mus\u00edme zbavi\u0165 ka\u017ed\u00e9ho nepokoja, strachu, pochybnosti a stresu.
A tak ke\u010f sa n\u00e1s zmocnia nejak\u00e9 obavy, neistota a nepokoj, ako prv\u00e9 sa sna\u017e\u00edme tieto prek\u00e1\u017eky vytesni\u0165 \u010di odstr\u00e1ni\u0165 zo svojho \u017eivota \u2013 napr\u00edklad \u00fatekom, alkoholom, psychoterapeutick\u00fdm seden\u00edm a pod.\u00a0To je to, \u010do si mysl\u00edme, \u017ee n\u00e1m vr\u00e1ti psychick\u00fa pohodu. Av\u0161ak \u013eahko sa m\u00f4\u017ee sta\u0165, \u017ee sa budeme mota\u0165 len okolo seba a staneme sa \u013eahostajn\u00fdmi a necitliv\u00fdmi vo\u010di druh\u00fdm. Apo\u0161tol Peter n\u00e1s nab\u00e1da a s\u00fa\u010dasne n\u00e1m zas\u013eubuje: <\/span><\/span>Boh v\u0161etkej milosti, ktor\u00fd v\u00e1s povolal v Kristovi do svojej ve\u010dnej sl\u00e1vy, ke\u010f trochu potrp\u00edte, v\u00e1s zdokonal\u00ed, utvrd\u00ed, upevn\u00ed a postav\u00ed na st\u00e1ly z\u00e1klad!<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span> (<\/span>1. Petra 5,10).\u00a0\u0164a\u017ekosti a tr\u00e1penie v \u017eivote toti\u017e m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 pre \u010dloveka aj zdrojom tvorivej in\u0161pir\u00e1cie a impulzom pre zmenu smeru. Preto sa treba nau\u010di\u0165 ur\u010dit\u00e9 nap\u00e4tie a nepokoj podr\u017ea\u0165 a vedie\u0165 z neho aj nie\u010do vy\u0165a\u017ei\u0165. V pr\u00edpade v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edch probl\u00e9mov je v\u0161ak nevyhnutn\u00e9 n\u00e1js\u0165 v sebe odvahu a skuto\u010dne vyh\u013eada\u0165 a aj prija\u0165 pomoc odborn\u00edkov. To nie je \u017eiadna hanba. V pr\u00edpade ochorenia treba situ\u00e1ciu skuto\u010dne rie\u0161i\u0165. Existuj\u00fa toti\u017e \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed sa u\u017e s n\u00e1dchou c\u00edtia ako umieraj\u00faci a vy\u017eaduj\u00fa tomu zodpovedaj\u00facu starostlivos\u0165, a na druhej strane s\u00fa zase \u013eudia, ktor\u00fdm aj ke\u010f je \u00faplne zle a skuto\u010dne by potrebovali lek\u00e1ra, odmietaj\u00fa ak\u00fako\u013evek pomoc.\u00a0Preto aj tu plat\u00ed pravidlo „zlatej strednej cesty“…<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

S du\u0161evn\u00fdm a duchovn\u00fdm zdrav\u00edm a pohodou je to rovnak\u00e9 ako s telesn\u00fdm zdrav\u00edm a pohodou \u2013 preto treba (aj prevent\u00edvne) \u017ei\u0165 zdravo, dodr\u017eiava\u0165 aspo\u0148 do ur\u010ditej miery zdrav\u00fa \u017eivotospr\u00e1vu, (psycho)hygienu, pohyb at\u010f. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Mnoh\u00ed \u013eudia si myslia, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd by si mal vo svojom \u017eivote v\u017edy poradi\u0165 s\u00e1m. No rovnako d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 je vedie\u0165 rozpozna\u0165, ke\u010f n\u00e1m u\u017e na nie\u010do vlastn\u00e9 sily nesta\u010dia, a dok\u00e1za\u0165 po\u017eiada\u0165 o pomoc. Vyh\u013eada\u0165 hoci aj odborn\u00fa pomoc nie je zn\u00e1mkou vlastnej neschopnosti.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>Naopak, niekedy to m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 aj zn\u00e1mkou odvahy, prezieravosti a ochoty postavi\u0165 sa k svojim probl\u00e9mom \u010delom.<\/span><\/p>\n

Taktie\u017e sa stret\u00e1vam s n\u00e1zorom, \u017ee o vlastn\u00fdch probl\u00e9moch je lep\u0161ie s nik\u00fdm nehovori\u0165, jednak \u013eudia nedok\u00e1\u017eu zachova\u0165 tajomstvo, a taktie\u017e na\u010do ich za\u0165a\u017eova\u0165, ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 predsa dos\u0165 svojich starost\u00ed. A mo\u017eno to ani nem\u00e1 zmysel… Len\u017ee pr\u00e1ve u\u017e len to vyrozpr\u00e1vanie sa a to, \u017ee n\u00e1s v\u00f4bec niekto s\u00fastredene po\u010d\u00fava, n\u00e1m \u010dasto prinesie \u00fa\u013eavu.\u00a0<\/span>A navy\u0161e, v \u010dase kr\u00edzy a starost\u00ed \u010dasto vn\u00edmame svoju situ\u00e1ciu ve\u013emi z\u00fa\u017eene a pr\u00e1ve poh\u013ead in\u00e9ho \u010dloveka n\u00e1m m\u00f4\u017ee pom\u00f4c\u0165 roz\u0161\u00edri\u0165 vlastn\u00e9 nazeranie na dan\u00fd probl\u00e9m \u010di pozrie\u0165 sa na\u0148 z in\u00e9ho uhla.<\/span><\/p>\n

Len\u017ee niektor\u00ed \u013eudia vyh\u013eadaj\u00fa odborn\u00fa pomoc, a\u017e ke\u010f u\u017e s\u00fa \u00faplne na dne, a\u017e ke\u010f sa zr\u00fatia. No aj tu plat\u00ed, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm sk\u00f4r, t\u00fdm lep\u0161ie \u2013 o to\u013eko viac s\u00edl a \u010dasu ost\u00e1va na rie\u0161enie probl\u00e9mu. \u017divotn\u00e1 kr\u00edza nie je du\u0161evn\u00ed choroba, a preto ani \u010dlovek, ktor\u00fd nav\u0161t\u00edvi kr\u00edzov\u00e9 centrum nie je du\u0161evne chor\u00fd. Kr\u00edza je naru\u0161enie du\u0161evnej rovnov\u00e1hy, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017ee vznikn\u00fa\u0165, ke\u010f napr. \u010del\u00edme nejakej \u0165a\u017ekej, zlo\u017eitej alebo \u017eivot ohrozuj\u00facej situ\u00e1cii, s ktorou sa v danom okamihu nedok\u00e1\u017eeme vysporiada\u0165. Tu neplat\u00ed, \u017ee ak si to tak\u00fdto \u010dlovek zapr\u00ed\u010dinil s\u00e1m, pomoc si nezasl\u00fa\u017ei. Nech u\u017e dan\u00e1 situ\u00e1cia vznikla akoko\u013evek, vlastnou vinou \u010di inak, d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 je, \u010di chceme urobi\u0165 nie\u010do pre jej vyrie\u0161enie. Ve\u010f ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s je chybuj\u00faci! Preto ani nem\u00f4\u017eeme poveda\u0165, \u017ee ten, kto nezvl\u00e1dne \u0165a\u017ek\u00fa \u017eivotn\u00fa situ\u00e1ciu, je slaboch. Lebo ka\u017ed\u00e9ho z n\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017ee zasko\u010di\u0165 alebo prekvapi\u0165 nejak\u00e1 n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1 situ\u00e1cia a my sa dostaneme do \u00fazkych. A \u00e1no, existuj\u00fa ur\u010dit\u00e9 z\u00e1kladn\u00e9 veci v \u017eivote, ktor\u00e9 by mal ka\u017ed\u00fd norm\u00e1lny \u010dlovek zvl\u00e1dnu\u0165 s\u00e1m. Iba\u017ee kr\u00edza je subjekt\u00edvna, ka\u017ed\u00fd pre\u017e\u00edvame tie ist\u00e9 udalosti inak \u2013 to, \u010do je pre jedn\u00e9ho hra\u010dkou, m\u00f4\u017ee toho druh\u00e9ho celkom polo\u017ei\u0165. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ke\u010f n\u00e1s zaplavia intenz\u00edvne nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9 pocity \u2013 napr. zlos\u0165, hnev, sm\u00fatok, \u017eiarlivos\u0165 \u010di nen\u00e1vis\u0165, treba si ich v\u0161\u00edma\u0165, a to nielen u seba, ale aj u druh\u00fdch. Lebo tieto pocity oby\u010dajne nezmizn\u00fa len tak, sam\u00e9 od seba. A navy\u0161e ve\u013emi ovplyv\u0148uj\u00fa na\u0161e spr\u00e1vanie. Je u\u017eito\u010dn\u00e9 zaobera\u0165 sa t\u00fdm, ako vznikli, odkia\u013e prich\u00e1dzaj\u00fa, komu patria a \u010do n\u00e1m chc\u00fa nazna\u010di\u0165 \u010di poveda\u0165.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pripravujte cestu P\u00e1novi, vyrovn\u00e1vajte Mu chodn\u00edky;\u00a0Ka\u017ed\u00e9 \u00fadolie nech je vyrovnan\u00e9, ka\u017ed\u00fd vrch a kopec zn\u00ed\u017een\u00fd; \u010do je kriv\u00e9, nech sa vyrovn\u00e1, a hrbo\u013eat\u00e9 cesty nech s\u00fa uhladen\u00e9.\u00a0A v\u0161etci \u013eudia uvidia spasenie Bo\u017eie. (Luk\u00e1\u0161 3,4-6)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4,9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4308"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4308"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4308\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4310,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4308\/revisions\/4310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4308"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4308"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4308"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}