{"id":1964,"date":"2017-10-02T13:21:14","date_gmt":"2017-10-02T11:21:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2017\/10\/02\/vianoce-vianoce-prichadzaju\/"},"modified":"2018-05-17T21:42:59","modified_gmt":"2018-05-17T19:42:59","slug":"vianoce-vianoce-prichadzaju","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2017\/10\/02\/vianoce-vianoce-prichadzaju\/","title":{"rendered":"VIANOCE, VIANOCE PRICH\u00c1DZAJ\u00da…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vianoce sa nezadr\u017eate\u013ene bl\u00ed\u017eia a s nimi mo\u017eno plno predst\u00e1v a o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00ed – ako by to malo by\u0165, ako to chcem alebo hlavne, nech to nie je takto…<\/span>
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\nObavy z Vianoc<\/b><\/p>\n

Mo\u017eno n\u00e1s prem\u00e1ha t\u00fa\u017eba ma\u0165 v\u0161etko pod kontrolou, zabr\u00e1ni\u0165 chaosu, zachr\u00e1ni\u0165 rodinn\u00fa atmosf\u00e9ru, vytvori\u0165 dom\u00e1cu pohodu at\u010f. Alebo n\u00e1s mo\u017eno, naopak, prem\u00e1ha rezign\u00e1cia, strach a t\u00fa\u017eba nech je to u\u017e za mnou…
\nZviazanos\u0165 v\u0161etk\u00fdmi trad\u00edciami n\u00e1m mo\u017eno berie chu\u0165 v\u00f4bec d\u00fdcha\u0165.
\nNezab\u00fadajme v\u0161ak, \u017ee P\u00e1nom n\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivota a teda aj t\u00fdchto Vianoc je Boh! A nie nejak\u00e9 na\u0161e predstavy o Vianociach \u010di neporu\u0161en\u00e1 l\u00ednia trad\u00edc. Boh m\u00f4\u017ee a chce kona\u0165 nov\u00e9 veci.
\nMo\u017eno by preto nebolo zl\u00e9 sa zastavi\u0165. Odovzda\u0165 svoje pl\u00e1ny na splnenie tis\u00edc a jednej drobnosti \u010di svoju otupenos\u0165 a strach Bohu a poveda\u0165 spolu s M\u00e1riou: Som slu\u017eobnica P\u00e1nova, sta\u0148 sa mi pod\u013ea tvojho slova\u201c (Luk\u00e1\u0161 1,38). Toto nie je pasivita, ale postoj o\u010dak\u00e1vania a pripravenosti. D\u00e1vam ti, Pane, priestor, aby si ty jednal v mojom \u017eivote. A Boh m\u00f4\u017ee a chce kona\u0165 nov\u00e9 veci! Chce sa znova narodi\u0165 aj v tvojom srdci. Nevad\u00ed mu chliev tvojich slabost\u00ed. Jedin\u00e9, \u010do mu br\u00e1ni, je tvoj pocit vlastnej d\u00f4le\u017eitosti a nepostr\u00e1date\u013enosti, tvoj strach alebo to, \u017ee od tohtoro\u010dn\u00fdch Vianoc u\u017e v\u00f4bec ni\u010d ne\u010dak\u00e1\u0161\u2026<\/p>\n

Vianoce \u010dasto prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa sklamanie<\/b><\/p>\n

Nemysl\u00edm t\u00fdm \u0165a\u017ek\u00fa hlavu po vypitom v\u00edne, \u017el\u010dn\u00edkov\u00e9 z\u00e1chvaty \u010di v\u00fddavky, ktor\u00e9 nevyhnutne pozna\u010dia janu\u00e1rov\u00fd rodinn\u00fd rozpo\u010det. Mysl\u00edm na pr\u00e1zdne miesta pri \u0161tedrove\u010dernom stole – tie s\u00fa tak ve\u013emi bolestiv\u00e9… <\/p>\n

\u010c\u00edm je \u010dlovek star\u0161\u00ed, t\u00fdm viac boles\u0165 p\u00f4sobiacich pr\u00e1zdnych miest okolo seba m\u00e1. Vianoce m\u00f4\u017eu \u010dloveku prinies\u0165 aj r\u00f4zne in\u00e9 sklamania – napr\u00edklad z nenaplnen\u00fdch o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00ed. V niektor\u00fdch \u013eu\u010foch m\u00f4\u017eu zase Vianoce vyvola\u0165 ur\u010dit\u00e9 obavy, preto\u017ee intenz\u00edvnej\u0161ie poci\u0165uj\u00fa svoj vlastn\u00fd z\u00e1rmutok.<\/p>\n

Daj\u00fa sa sm\u00fatok a sklamanie, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017eu po\u010das sviatkov prepadn\u00fa\u0165, predsa len trochu zmierni\u0165? Vianoce n\u00e1m pripom\u00ednaj\u00fa, \u017ee je ove\u013ea lep\u0161ie aj radostnej\u0161ie d\u00e1va\u0165 ako bra\u0165, a preto si zasl\u00fa\u017eia ve\u013ek\u00fd obdiv t\u00ed, ktor\u00ed napriek v\u0161etk\u00e9mu dok\u00e1\u017eu na svoje vlastn\u00e9 tr\u00e1penie, sm\u00fatok a \u0165a\u017ekosti aspo\u0148 na chv\u00ed\u013eu zabudn\u00fa\u0165 a radova\u0165 sa s druh\u00fdmi. Ap. Pavol n\u00e1m hovor\u00ed: Pla\u010dte s pla\u010d\u00facimi, no hne\u010f dod\u00e1va: Radujte sa s raduj\u00facimi! Najlep\u0161ie je t\u00fdm, ktor\u00ed maj\u00fa vn\u00edmav\u00e9 a s\u00facitn\u00e9 srdce, a z\u00e1vis\u0165 – vlastnos\u0165 ve\u013emi \u013eudsk\u00fa a pochopite\u013en\u00fa – dok\u00e1\u017eu celkom odsun\u00fa\u0165. Tak\u00ed \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed zab\u00fadaj\u00fa sami na seba, sa potom m\u00f4\u017eu otvori\u0165 radosti, ktor\u00fa pre\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa t\u00ed druh\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Zdie\u013ea\u0165 rados\u0165 s druh\u00fdmi a zab\u00fada\u0165 na svoje tr\u00e1penie – to je jeden z najkraj\u0161\u00edch prejavov kres\u0165anskej l\u00e1sky. Pripodob\u0148ujeme sa tak nebesk\u00e9mu Otcovi, ktor\u00fd sa radoval nad svoj\u00edm Synom, die\u0165atkom le\u017eiacim na sene, ktor\u00e9mu \u013eudia ako pr\u00edstre\u0161ie pon\u00fakli iba \u00faboh\u00fa chatr\u010d.<\/p>\n

Vianoce prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa aj frustr\u00e1ciu…<\/b><\/p>\n

Vianoce so svojimi obrovsk\u00fdmi n\u00e1rokmi prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa frustr\u00e1ciu v\u0161etk\u00fdm, ktor\u00ed ich oslavu maj\u00fa na starosti, teda hlavne dospel\u00fdm a rodi\u010dom. Dohodn\u00fa\u0165 sa, ako budeme Vianoce oslavova\u0165, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 pre niektor\u00fdch ve\u013ek\u00fdm probl\u00e9mom. Nielen, \u017ee neexistuje objekt\u00edvny poh\u013ead na to, \u010do je spr\u00e1vna oslava, ale hlavne pr\u00e1ve oh\u013eadne Vianoc m\u00e1me \u010dasto svoje jedine\u010dn\u00e9 intern\u00e9 predstavy, ktor\u00e9 by sme radi naplnili. A v nich m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 ve\u013ek\u00fd rozdiel, a to nielen medzi jednotliv\u00fdmi rodinami, ale aj medzi mu\u017emi a \u017eenami.<\/p>\n

Skuto\u010dnos\u0165 je ne\u00faprosn\u00e1: nielen pod\u013ea \u0161tatist\u00edk, ale aj pod\u013ea klinickej sk\u00fasenosti, viano\u010dn\u00fd stres existuje a pre niekoho m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 neznesite\u013enou z\u00e1\u0165a\u017eou. Pr\u00e1ve okolo Vianoc prib\u00fada depres\u00edvnych probl\u00e9mov so v\u0161etk\u00fdmi nebezpe\u010diami, ktor\u00e9 k nim patria.
\nAko sa teda vysporiada\u0165 so zv\u00fd\u0161enou nervozitou, konfliktmi a h\u00e1dkami? Treba si uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee doba, ktor\u00fa pova\u017eujeme za detsky rozpr\u00e1vkov\u00fa, je nabit\u00e1 r\u00f4znymi zlo\u017eit\u00fdmi \u00falohami, ktor\u00e9 sa net\u00fdkaj\u00fa len n\u00e1s osobne. Ka\u017ed\u00fd, koho stret\u00e1vame, m\u00e1 pred sebou rovnak\u00fa \u00falohu – pripravi\u0165 kr\u00e1sne Vianoce. Ak sa tak\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed z\u00edde ve\u013ea, je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee d\u00f4jde aj ku konfliktom. Prv\u00fdm a z\u00e1kladn\u00fdm krokom je teda uvedomi\u0165 si, \u017ee sme na tom v\u0161etci rovnako – v\u0161etci sme rovnako upon\u00e1h\u013ean\u00ed a mo\u017eno aj nerv\u00f3zni.<\/p>\n

Dar\u010deky s\u00fa len z\u00e1stupn\u00fdm symbolom na\u0161ej neschopnosti vyjadri\u0165, \u017ee m\u00e1me niekoho radi. Z tohto poh\u013eadu je \u00faplne jedno, \u010do dostaneme. D\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 je, \u017ee si na n\u00e1s niekto spomenul. A ak sa n\u00e1m dar\u010dek p\u00e1\u010di, je to k tomu navy\u0161e ako \u0161\u013eaha\u010dka na torte.<\/p>\n

Vianoce s\u00fa aj pre \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd neoslavuje Kristovo narodenie, v\u00fdzvou. Mo\u017eno je to jedin\u00fd \u010das v roku, kedy sme schopn\u00ed a ochotn\u00ed aspo\u0148 na chv\u00ed\u013eu sa zamyslie\u0165 nad z\u00e1kladn\u00fdmi ot\u00e1zkami \u010dlove\u010denstva. Ot\u00e1zky typu: Kto sme?, Odkia\u013e prich\u00e1dzame a kam smerujeme? sme si mo\u017eno kl\u00e1dli v \u010dasoch dospievania. V dospelosti n\u00e1s tieto d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky napadn\u00fa aspo\u0148 okolo Vianoc.<\/p>\n

Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee my, kres\u0165ania, na rozdiel od neveriacich m\u00e1me z\u00e1sadn\u00fa v\u00fdhodu: vieme, \u010do oslavujeme. Vianoce s\u00fa pre n\u00e1s dobrou spr\u00e1vou o tom, \u017ee Boh sa v Je\u017ei\u0161ovi stoto\u017enil s \u013eu\u010fmi. Jeho pr\u00edchod na zem by sa dal o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165 ako ve\u013ekolep\u00fd, triumf\u00e1lny a vo „svetle reflektorov“. \u017de s\u00e1m Boh pr\u00edde v sl\u00e1ve, v bohatstve a v sprievode „celebr\u00edt“. On si v\u0161ak zvolil cestu spolupatri\u010dnosti s t\u00fdmi najposlednej\u0161\u00edmi, s prehliadan\u00fdmi, sklaman\u00fdmi.<\/p>\n

Mocn\u00fd Boh sa narodil ako bezmocn\u00e9 die\u0165a,
\nbohat\u00fd Boh preb\u00fdval v chudobnom chlieve,
\nBoh – najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ia skuto\u010dn\u00e1 „celebrita“ – pri\u0161iel medzi oby\u010dajn\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed,
\nBoh – prame\u0148 n\u00e1deje, pri\u0161iel do ob\u00e1v a iste aj do sklamania M\u00e1rie, ktor\u00fa neprijali v \u017eiadnom hostinci, tak\u017ee musela Je\u017ei\u0161a porodi\u0165 v ma\u0161tali…<\/b><\/p>\n

A to v\u0161etko preto, aby sme uverili, \u017ee je „Boh s nami“, \u017ee m\u00e1 s nami dobr\u00e9 \u00famysly, \u017ee n\u00e1m rozumie, \u017ee mu nepadne za\u0165a\u017eko vych\u00e1dza\u0165 n\u00e1m v \u00fastrety do v\u0161etk\u00fdch na\u0161ich „chlievov“ ob\u00e1v, sklaman\u00ed a nenaplnen\u00fdch o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00ed.<\/p>\n

(sprac. pod\u013ea D. Soneta a P. Goldmanna, www.vira.cz)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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