{"id":1849,"date":"2014-04-23T10:50:25","date_gmt":"2014-04-23T08:50:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2014\/04\/23\/miesto-pre-otca\/"},"modified":"2018-05-17T22:22:43","modified_gmt":"2018-05-17T20:22:43","slug":"miesto-pre-otca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2014\/04\/23\/miesto-pre-otca\/","title":{"rendered":"MIESTO PRE OTCA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"text\">Pre\u010do sa otcovia tak \u010dasto dr\u017eia bokom a svojim man\u017eelk\u00e1m prenech\u00e1vaj\u00fa n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fa v\u00fdchovu svojich det\u00ed?<\/span><br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nPr\u00ed\u010din je ve\u013ea. Mnoh\u00fdch otcov od rod\u00edn vz\u010fa\u013euje ich n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 zamestnanie. M\u00e1lo s\u00fa doma, a preto tr\u00e1via so svojimi de\u0165mi m\u00e1lo \u010dasu, \u010dasto prich\u00e1dzaj\u00fa domov, ke\u010f s\u00fa u\u017e najmen\u0161ie deti v posteli \u2013 a to u\u017e je neskoro na spolo\u010dn\u00fa modlitbu! Hlb\u0161\u00ed d\u00f4vod tohto stavu m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 aj ten, \u017ee mnoho otcov o svojich otcovsk\u00fdch schopnostiach dokonca pochybuje, \u010dasto to po\u010d\u00favam: \u201eMan\u017eelka to vie ove\u013ea lep\u0161ie ako ja\u2026 Ja sa c\u00edtim tak\u00fd nemotorn\u00fd a neohraban\u00fd&#8230;\u201c<br \/>\nDie\u0165a v\u0161ak potrebuje oboch rodi\u010dov. Otec a matka sa predsa vz\u00e1jomne dop\u013a\u0148aj\u00fa. V\u00f4bec nie je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, \u017ee \u201eman\u017eelka to rob\u00ed lep\u0161ie ako vy\u201c (aj ke\u010f to nie je v\u00f4bec ist\u00e9), va\u0161u rolu nikdy nem\u00f4\u017ee nahradi\u0165. Pre va\u0161e die\u0165a bude ove\u013ea lep\u0161ie, ke\u010f sa do kres\u0165anskej v\u00fdchovy, akoko\u013evek neohrabane, zapoj\u00edte aj vy, ako ke\u010f ju celkom prenech\u00e1te svojej man\u017eelke, nech je akoko\u013evek schopn\u00e1 a zbo\u017en\u00e1. Pl\u0148te svoje matersk\u00e9 \u010di otcovsk\u00e9 poslanie ako najlep\u0161ie viete, neznepokojujte sa svojimi obmedzeniami a nedostatkami. Je\u017ei\u0161 rozmno\u017eil p\u00e4\u0165 chlebov a dve ryby a nas\u00fdtil nimi z\u00e1stupy. Rovnako rozmno\u017e\u00ed aj na\u0161e nedokonal\u00e9 sna\u017eenie a \u00fasilie.<br \/>\nOtcovi v\u0161ak mus\u00ed matka poskytn\u00fa\u0165 priestor. \u201eS\u0165a\u017eovala som sa, \u017ee sa m\u00f4j man\u017eel o n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fa v\u00fdchovu na\u0161ich det\u00ed v\u00f4bec nestar\u00e1,\u201c rozpr\u00e1va Helena. \u201eNo v h\u013abke du\u0161e som bola presved\u010den\u00e1, \u017ee to ani nevie. Iba \u010das od \u010dasu sa nechal prehovori\u0165, aby bol pr\u00edtomn\u00fd na na\u0161ej ve\u010dernej modlitbe, ktor\u00fa som v\u0161ak viedla celkom sama. Potom som sa ne\u010dakane ocitla v nemocnici a veci mali vo\u013en\u00fd priebeh. Od det\u00ed som sa dozvedela, \u017ee po\u010das mojej nepr\u00edtomnosti sa man\u017eel s nimi ka\u017ed\u00fd ve\u010der modl\u00ed, a dokonca im rozpr\u00e1va biblick\u00e9 pr\u00edbehy. Pochopila som, \u017ee som mu doteraz neumo\u017e\u0148ovala zauja\u0165 miesto, ktor\u00e9 mu prin\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. Nevedomky som mu nedala mo\u017enos\u0165 zapoji\u0165 sa do kres\u0165anskej v\u00fdchovy, ka\u017ed\u00fa jeho snahu som marila.\u201c Pozn\u00e1m ve\u013ea podobn\u00fdch pr\u00edpadov. A preto by sme nemali dlho \u010daak\u0165 s ot\u00e1zkami: Dovol\u00edm man\u017eelovi plni\u0165 jeho \u00falohu kres\u0165ansk\u00e9ho vychov\u00e1vate\u013ea? V \u010dom by som mala trochu ust\u00fapi\u0165 do pozadia a uvo\u013eni\u0165 miesto, ktor\u00e9 mu prin\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed?&#8230;<br \/>\nA na druhej strane je d\u00f4el\u017eit\u00e9, aby si aj otcovia polo\u017eili ot\u00e1zky: Nevyvliekam sa tak trochu zo svojej zodpovednosti za kres\u0165ansk\u00fa v\u00fdchovu na\u0161ich det\u00ed? Ako sa jej m\u00f4\u017eem z\u00fa\u010dastni\u0165?&#8230;<br \/>\n(Christine Ponsardov\u00e1: V\u00edra v rodin\u011b, Karmelit\u00e1nsk\u00e9 nakladatelstv\u00ed, zdroj: www.vira.cz)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pre\u010do sa otcovia tak \u010dasto dr\u017eia bokom a svojim man\u017eelk\u00e1m prenech\u00e1vaj\u00fa n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fa v\u00fdchovu svojich det\u00ed?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1849"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1849"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1849\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2118,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1849\/revisions\/2118"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}