{"id":1840,"date":"2014-01-15T12:27:11","date_gmt":"2014-01-15T11:27:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2014\/01\/15\/dobre-vino-sa-bez-sebazaprenia-nezaobide-ani-prava-laska\/"},"modified":"2018-05-17T22:24:57","modified_gmt":"2018-05-17T20:24:57","slug":"dobre-vino-sa-bez-sebazaprenia-nezaobide-ani-prava-laska","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2014\/01\/15\/dobre-vino-sa-bez-sebazaprenia-nezaobide-ani-prava-laska\/","title":{"rendered":"DOBR\u00c9 V\u00cdNO SA BEZ SEBAZAPRENIA NEZAOB\u00cdDE. ANI PRAV\u00c1 L\u00c1SKA."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"text\">\u010c\u00edm s\u00fa si partneri bli\u017e\u0161\u00ed, t\u00fdm viac nedorozumenia im hroz\u00ed<br \/>\n\u010c\u00edm s\u00fa si partneri bli\u017e\u0161\u00ed, t\u00fdm hor\u0161ie sa im niekedy komunikuje a t\u00fdm viac nedorozumenia im hroz\u00ed. Pochopi\u0165 toho druh\u00e9ho je niekedy ve\u013emi nam\u00e1hav\u00e9. Priateli\u0165 sa s \u010dlovekom, ktor\u00e9ho v\u00eddame len ob\u010das, nie je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9.<\/span><br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nAv\u0161ak \u010d\u00edm s\u00fa si dvaja \u013eudia bli\u017e\u0161ie, t\u00fdm viac vz\u00e1jomn\u00fdch konfliktov musia rie\u0161i\u0165. Okolo ve\u013ek\u00fdch \u017eivotn\u00fdch rozhodnut\u00ed prepukaj\u00fa h\u00e1dky len zriedkavo, hlavn\u00fdm zdrojom konfliktov s\u00fa hlavne odli\u0161n\u00e9 zvyklosti ka\u017ed\u00e9ho z n\u00e1s. Ako sa m\u00e1 spr\u00e1vne vytl\u00e1\u010da\u0165 zubn\u00e1 pasta? Ako maj\u00fa by\u0165 ulo\u017een\u00e9 veci na poli\u010dk\u00e1ch? Ja usta\u0165 viem, ale ty nie, tie ko\u0161ele sa musia posklada\u0165 znova, riady v um\u00fdva\u010dke treba nanovo ulo\u017ei\u0165\u2026 V podobn\u00fdch v\u00fdrokoch by sme mohli e\u0161te dlho pokra\u010dova\u0165.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00e1ska n\u00e1m neodstr\u00e1ni z cesty v\u0161etky prek\u00e1\u017eky<br \/>\nPred milovan\u00fdm \u010dlovekom si \u017eiadne masky nenasadzujeme. V\u0161etky probl\u00e9my a nedorozumenia, ktor\u00e9 so sebou vz\u0165ah prin\u00e1\u0161a, n\u00e1s bolia o to viac, \u010d\u00edm sme si bli\u017e\u0161\u00ed. L\u00e1ska n\u00e1m v\u0161ak v\u0161etky prek\u00e1\u017eky z\u00a0cesty neodstr\u00e1ni. Aj ke\u010f sa hlboko milujeme, neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee v na\u0161om vz\u0165ahu nenastan\u00fa \u017eiadne \u0165a\u017ekosti. Pre\u017eijeme chv\u00edle ve\u013ek\u00e9ho \u0161\u0165astia, ale aj chv\u00edle, kedy \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed rozhodne nebudeme. Pocit ve\u013ekej vz\u00e1jomnej bl\u00edzkosti vystrieda \u010das od \u010dasu nepochopenie.<br \/>\nDobr\u00e9 v\u00edno vznikne len vtedy, ke\u010f s\u00fa bobule hrozna vystaven\u00e9 slnku aj da\u017e\u010fu. D\u00e1\u017e\u010f je pre r\u00e9vu rovnako d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd ako slne\u010dn\u00e9 svetlo a teplo. Pre l\u00e1sku plat\u00ed to ist\u00e9. Mo\u017eno sn\u00edvame \u201eo raji\u201c, v ktorom nie je p\u00fa\u0161\u0165, p\u00e1\u013eava, b\u00farky a \u017eiadne spory, v ktorom sa nemus\u00edme ni\u010doho zrieka\u0165, ni\u010d prekon\u00e1va\u0165 a o ni\u010d usilova\u0165. Chceme ma\u0165 raj tu a teraz. S\u00fa\u010dasne v\u0161ak dobre vieme, \u017ee napriek na\u0161im snom man\u017eelsk\u00fd \u017eivot nie je nijak\u00e1 prech\u00e1dzka ru\u017eovou z\u00e1hradou. Milova\u0165 toti\u017e znamen\u00e1 st\u00e1le na sebe pracova\u0165. Oh\u013eaduplnosti a pochopeniu sa v l\u00e1ske mus\u00edme nau\u010di\u0165. Odp\u00fata\u0165 pozornos\u0165 od seba a s\u00fastredi\u0165 ju na svojho partnera, pretv\u00e1ra\u0165 \u017eivotn\u00e9 \u0165a\u017ekosti l\u00e1skou a prija\u0165 toho druh\u00e9ho so v\u0161etk\u00fdm, \u010do k nemu patr\u00ed bez toho, aby sme sa ho sna\u017eili prerobi\u0165 pod\u013ea svojich predst\u00e1v \u2013 to n\u00e1m nie je vlastn\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Prav\u00e1 l\u00e1ska sa neob\u00edde bez sklaman\u00ed, nezh\u00f4d a sebazapren\u00ed<br \/>\nDo l\u00e1sky sa premieta cel\u00e1 na\u0161a osobnos\u0165: na\u0161a minulos\u0165, na\u0161a rodinn\u00e1 hist\u00f3ria, na\u0161e traumy. L\u00e1ska v\u0161etky prek\u00e1\u017eky neprekon\u00e1 a v\u0161etky rany nevylie\u010di. O odriekan\u00ed sa dnes v s\u00favislosti s l\u00e1skou takmer nikdy nehovor\u00ed. A preto treba neust\u00e1le znova opakova\u0165, \u017ee bez sklaman\u00ed, nezh\u00f4d a sebazapren\u00ed sa prav\u00e1 l\u00e1ska neob\u00edde. Tvrdi\u0165 opak by znamenalo popiera\u0165 realitu. B\u00e1snik Amado Nervo to vyjadril takto:<br \/>\nNehovor si: budem trpie\u0165,<br \/>\nnehovor si: sklamem sa.<br \/>\nLen jednoducho radostne putuj<br \/>\na h\u013eadaj l\u00e1sku.<br \/>\nMiluj, ako dok\u00e1\u017ee\u0161,<br \/>\nv\u0161etko, \u010do milova\u0165 vie\u0161.<br \/>\nSt\u00e1le len miluj.<\/p>\n<p>Viera v Boha neodstra\u0148uje \u0165a\u017ekosti z na\u0161ich \u017eivotov, ale d\u00e1va n\u00e1m silu prekona\u0165 ich<br \/>\nVeriaci si niekedy myslia, \u017ee bud\u00fa uchr\u00e1nen\u00ed v\u0161etk\u00fdch \u0165a\u017ekost\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 sa v man\u017eelstve vyskytuj\u00fa. Nezab\u00fadajme na d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fa vetu ap. Pavla: \u201eL\u00e1ska sa prejavuje v slabosti.\u201c Viera v Boha a v Bo\u017eie p\u00f4sobenie v na\u0161om \u017eivote je, samozrejme, ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1, av\u0161ak Bo\u017eia l\u00e1ska \u013eudsk\u00fa prirodzenos\u0165 neru\u0161\u00ed a \u0165a\u017ekosti z na\u0161ich \u017eivotov neodstra\u0148uje. Boh nie je \u017eiadne povinn\u00e9 ru\u010denie, ktor\u00e9 podpisujeme, aby sme sa chr\u00e1nili pred nepriazniv\u00fdmi dopadmi \u017eivotn\u00fdch karambolov. Boh je tu a sprev\u00e1dza n\u00e1s po ceste l\u00e1sky, \u017eivota. Boh je uprostred na\u0161ich \u0165a\u017ekost\u00ed aj uprostred nedorozumen\u00ed a sklaman\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 pre\u017e\u00edvame. U\u010d\u00ed n\u00e1s pre\u017e\u00edva\u0165 ich s l\u00e1skou. A pr\u00e1ve o to by sme ho mali \u010dasto prosi\u0165.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u010c\u00edm s\u00fa si partneri bli\u017e\u0161\u00ed, t\u00fdm viac nedorozumenia im hroz\u00ed \u010c\u00edm s\u00fa si partneri bli\u017e\u0161\u00ed, t\u00fdm hor\u0161ie sa im niekedy komunikuje a t\u00fdm viac nedorozumenia im hroz\u00ed. Pochopi\u0165 toho druh\u00e9ho je niekedy ve\u013emi nam\u00e1hav\u00e9. Priateli\u0165 sa s \u010dlovekom, ktor\u00e9ho v\u00eddame len ob\u010das, nie je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1840"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1840"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1840\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2127,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1840\/revisions\/2127"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1840"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1840"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1840"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}