{"id":1793,"date":"2012-09-04T12:35:00","date_gmt":"2012-09-04T10:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2012\/09\/04\/ako-zvladnut-svoj-zivot\/"},"modified":"2018-05-17T22:39:35","modified_gmt":"2018-05-17T20:39:35","slug":"ako-zvladnut-svoj-zivot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/2012\/09\/04\/ako-zvladnut-svoj-zivot\/","title":{"rendered":"AKO ZVL\u00c1DNU\u0164 SVOJ \u017dIVOT"},"content":{"rendered":"

V\u0161etci pozn\u00e1me t\u00fa\u017ebu mal\u00fdch det\u00ed ma\u0165 v\u0161etko a hne\u010f. Deti h\u013eadaj\u00fa bezprostredn\u00e9 pote\u0161enie, len \u0165a\u017eko dok\u00e1\u017eu veci odklada\u0165 a \u010daka\u0165.<\/span>
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\n\u017divot a sk\u00fasenos\u0165 postupne posilnia t\u00fa ich \u010das\u0165, ktor\u00e1 sa vol\u00e1 \u201edospel\u00fd\u201c, tzv. dobr\u00e9 \u201eja\u201c, ktor\u00e9 je schopn\u00e9 odlo\u017ei\u0165 bezprostredn\u00e9 pote\u0161enie kv\u00f4li vzdialenej\u0161iemu cie\u013eu. Jeho dosiahnutie v\u0161ak bude trva\u0165 dlh\u0161ie, nehovoriac o \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdch etap\u00e1ch, ktor\u00e9 treba prekona\u0165. Bez trpezlivosti a v\u00fddr\u017ee by sme sa nemohli nau\u010di\u0165 ni\u010d, ka\u017ed\u00e9ho by hne\u010f po prvej hodine odradilo \u0161kr\u00edpanie husl\u00ed \u010di kopance do l\u00fdtka pri futbale! Len m\u00e1lo \u017eiakov by i\u0161lo do \u0161koly len z vlastnej v\u00f4le a aj v pracovnom \u017eivote by sa situ\u00e1cia pekne skomplikovala, keby ka\u017ed\u00fd chodil do roboty len vtedy, ke\u010f by sa mu chcelo… Preto bola zaveden\u00e1 povinn\u00e1 \u0161kolsk\u00e1 doch\u00e1dzka spojen\u00e1 s mnohoro\u010dn\u00fdm sebazapieran\u00edm, ktor\u00e9ho cie\u013eom je naozaj sa nie\u010do nau\u010di\u0165. <\/p>\n

A hoci v\u0161etky udalosti m\u00f4jho \u017eivota neprich\u00e1dzaj\u00fa od Boha, m\u00f4\u017eem ich prij\u00edma\u0165 ako pr\u00edle\u017eitosti k zmene a vn\u00fatorn\u00e9mu pretvoreniu. Tak budem ma\u0165 naozaj pocit, \u017ee postupujem po ceste \u010falej a \u017ee v skuto\u010dnom \u017eit\u00ed mi nebr\u00e1ni stav, v ktorom \u017eijem, ale sp\u00f4sob, ak\u00fdm prij\u00edmam veci okolo seba.
\nPracujem na svojom pocite spokojnosti? Moje man\u017eelstvo nie je najlep\u0161ie, ale in\u00ed \u017eij\u00fa sami. Moja pr\u00e1ca je zlo\u017eit\u00e1 a \u00fanavn\u00e1, ale in\u00ed pr\u00e1ci nemaj\u00fa. C\u00edtim sa vo svojom \u017eivote uzavret\u00fd, ale in\u00ed s\u00fa naozaj zavret\u00ed vo v\u00e4zen\u00ed. M\u00f4j byt je pr\u00edli\u0161 mal\u00fd, ale niektor\u00ed nemaj\u00fa \u017eiadnu strechu nad hlavou. Moje dni by som zhrnul jedin\u00fdm slovom \u2013 v\u0161ednos\u0165, ale v in\u00fdch krajin\u00e1ch je vojna. M\u00f4j \u017eivot je komplikovan\u00fd, ale in\u00fdm vybuchuj\u00fa pod nohami m\u00edny, ktor\u00e9 ich mrza\u010dia. <\/p>\n

\u010co keby som si povedal, \u017ee v\u0161etko sa to deje pre moje dobro? Tla\u010d\u00ed ma to von z m\u00f4jho \u017eivotn\u00e9ho priestoru a u\u010d\u00ed ma reagova\u0165 in\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom? Ak to budem bra\u0165 takto, tak budem m\u00f4c\u0165 ch\u00e1pa\u0165 a spolu pre\u017e\u00edva\u0165 z\u00e1\u017eitky mnoh\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed na tomto svete. <\/p>\n

Nau\u010dil som sa vn\u00edma\u0165 to, \u010do m\u00e1m, viac ako to, \u010do nem\u00e1m, a radova\u0165 sa z toho? Je to cvi\u010denie na ka\u017ed\u00fd de\u0148. A nebr\u00e1ni mi to robi\u0165 nevyhnutn\u00e9 zmeny. Ak chcem zotrva\u0165 v situ\u00e1cii, v ktorej sa pr\u00e1ve nach\u00e1dzam, mus\u00ed to by\u0165 jednozna\u010dn\u00e1 vo\u013eba. Ak chcem nie\u010do zmeni\u0165, mus\u00ed to by\u0165 taktie\u017e jednozna\u010dn\u00e1 vo\u013eba s t\u00fdm, \u017ee prij\u00edmam v\u0161etky n\u00e1sledky. Potom sa nebudem s\u0165a\u017eova\u0165 a stava\u0165 sa do \u00falohy obete. Pr\u00e1ve v tejto oblasti ma Boh prich\u00e1dza oslobodi\u0165 zo zajatia, v ktorom som \u2013 zo zajatia vlastnej psychiky. A ja s\u00e1m som za svoje uv\u00e4znenie zodpovedn\u00fd. <\/p>\n

(Yves Boulvin)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

V\u0161etci pozn\u00e1me t\u00fa\u017ebu mal\u00fdch det\u00ed ma\u0165 v\u0161etko a hne\u010f. Deti h\u013eadaj\u00fa bezprostredn\u00e9 pote\u0161enie, len \u0165a\u017eko dok\u00e1\u017eu veci odklada\u0165 a \u010daka\u0165.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1793"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1793"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1793\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2173,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1793\/revisions\/2173"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1793"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1793"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/btm.sk\/WP\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1793"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}